你身边有2种人在骗你
<p>说谎的人（<span word="liar">liar</span>）我们的都知道是怎样一种人，但如果你问一个心理学家，他会告诉你这种人是有分类的，一种是普通说谎者（<span word="normal">normal</span> <span word="liar">liar</span>），另一种是病态说谎者（<span word="pathological">pathological</span> <span word="liar">liar</span>）</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="pathological">pathological</span> <span word="liar">liar</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="individual">individual</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="chronically">chronically</span> <span word="tells">tells</span> <span word="grandiose">grandiose</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="stretch">stretch</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="exceed">exceed</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="limits">limits</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="believability">believability</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="bend">bend</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="occasionally">occasionally</span>, <span word="pathological">pathological</span> <span word="liars">liars</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="habitually">habitually</span>.</p><p>病态说谎者指的是，一个人长期撒着各种浮夸的谎言，这些谎言可能浮夸到让人根本无法相信。大多数人都只是偶尔才说谎，或者偶尔选择性地陈述事实，但病态说谎者这么做却是习惯性的。</p><p>大多数人偶尔说说谎都是正常现象，这是我们自带的一种防卫机制（<span word="defense">defense</span> <span word="mechanism">mechanism</span>），我们以此来规避事实带来的后果。</p><p>有时候撒谎甚至会是一件正面的事情，比如在你给情绪低落的朋友打气的时候，再比如你不想伤害别人感情的时候。</p><p>而相反，病态说谎者撒的谎没有任何社会价值（<span word="social">social</span> <span word="value">value</span>），有时候甚至还会很奇特（<span word="outlandish">outlandish</span>），这些谎话可能对说谎者本身都会造成灾难性的后果。</p><p>随着这些人的谎话越来越多，他们通常会逐步失去所有朋友和家人的信任，最后所有的人际关系都会告吹。极端情况下，这些人甚至会遇到法律问题，比如诽谤（<span word="libel">libel</span>）或者欺诈（<span word="fraud">fraud</span>）。</p>
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