新研究：生孩子会严重打击女性的自尊心
<p><span word="Becoming">Becoming</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="contradictions">contradictions</span>: <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="joy">joy</span> <span word="crash">crash</span> <span word="headlong">headlong</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="worry">worry</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="exhaustion">exhaustion</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="struggle">struggle</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="maintain">maintain</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="identity">identity</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Netherlands">Netherlands</span> <span word="suggests">suggests</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="mothers">mothers</span>.</p><p>成为父母是一件充满矛盾的事情：在生命的这一阶段，来自爱、意义和喜悦以及忧虑和疲惫的互相冲击，让一些新晋父母必须非常努力才能维持自己的身份认同。荷兰的一项新研究表明，这对妈妈来说尤其如此。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="consistent">consistent</span> <span word="pattern">pattern</span>: <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="declines">declines</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="pregnancies">pregnancies</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="increases">increases</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="afterwards">afterwards</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="declined">declined</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="again">again</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="continued">continued</span> <span word="falling">falling</span>. <span word="By">By</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="child">child</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="lower">lower</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="original">original</span> “<span word="baseline">baseline</span>.”</p><p>研究人员发现了一个始终一贯的模式：女性的自尊心在孕期会下降，分娩六个月后有所回升。不过，紧接着她们的自尊心又会下降，并保持下降的趋势。直至孩子长到三岁，仍低于原来的“基础值”。</p><p><span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="collecting">collecting</span> <span word="data">data</span>, <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dip">dip</span> <span word="lasted">lasted</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="longer">longer</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="wasn">wasn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="permanent">permanent</span>: <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="completed">completed</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="survey">survey</span> <span word="again">again</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="subsequent">subsequent</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="returned">returned</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="baseline">baseline</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="began">began</span> <span word="anew">anew</span>.</p>
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