你的肢体语言，时刻暴露着你的秘密
<p>1. <span word="Eye">Eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span></p><p>1.眼神接触</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="language">language</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="listening">listening</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span>, <span word="make">make</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>. <span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="slightly">slightly</span> <span word="glance">glance</span> <span word="away">away</span>.</p><p>如果你想用肢体语言来表明你在听对方说话，可以有眼神接触。跟对方眼神接触后略微把目光移开。</p><p>2. <span word="Crossed">Crossed</span> <span word="arms">arms</span></p><p>2.胳膊交叉</p><p><span word="Others">Others</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="distant">distant</span>, <span word="insecure">insecure</span>, <span word="anxious">anxious</span>, <span word="defensive">defensive</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="stubborn">stubborn</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="arm">arm</span> <span word="crossing">crossing</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="pluses">pluses</span>, <span word="too">too</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="sticking">sticking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="task">task</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="act">act</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="crossing">crossing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="arms">arms</span> <span word="utilizes">utilizes</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="brain">brain</span>, <span word="creating">creating</span> <span word="higher">higher</span> <span word="cognitive">cognitive</span> <span word="function">function</span>.</p><p>其他人会把这种肢体语言解读成你有距离感、没有安全感、焦虑、有防御性或固执。但胳膊交叉也有好处，它能使人面对困难工作更能坚持住，交叉胳膊时左脑和右脑都会用到，能提高认知功能。</p><p>3. <span word="Sitting">Sitting</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="legs">legs</span> <span word="spread">spread</span></p><p>3.腿岔开坐</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="sit">sit</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="marking">marking</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="territory">territory</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="exuding">exuding</span> <span word="dominance">dominance</span>. <span word="People">People</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="power">power</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="space">space</span>.</p><p>这样坐着是在划定地盘并显示支配地位，有权利的人占的地盘都更大。</p><p>4. <span word="Crossed">Crossed</span> <span word="legs">legs</span></p><p>4.腿交叉</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="sit">sit</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="legs">legs</span> <span word="crossed">crossed</span>, <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="dominate">dominate</span>. <span word="Crossing">Crossing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="legs">legs</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ankles">ankles</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="seated">seated</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="known">known</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> “<span word="ankle">ankle</span> <span word="lock">lock</span>” <span word="and">and</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="holding">holding</span> <span word="back">back</span>, <span word="uncertain">uncertain</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="fearful">fearful</span>, <span word="making">making</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="interview">interview</span> <span word="situations">situations</span>.</p>
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