10个优质开场白，帮你打破社交尴尬
<p>1. <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="helping">helping</span> <span word="hand">hand</span></p><p>1.寻求帮助</p><p><span word="Helping">Helping</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="starters">starters</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="helps">helps</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="forms">forms</span> <span word="natural">natural</span> <span word="bonds">bonds</span>. <span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="figure">figure</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="item">item</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="buffet">buffet</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="locate">locate</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="restroom">restroom</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="lowers">lowers</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="defenses">defenses</span>.</p><p>寻求帮助的问题是很好的开场白，因为当一个人帮你的时候你们很自然地就形成了一种联系。你帮别人弄清楚自助餐有什么或者找洗手间时你的防御就降低了。</p><p>2. <span word="Compliment">Compliment</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="looks">looks</span></p><p>2.赞美点外表之外的东西</p><p><span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="complimenting">complimenting</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="generic">generic</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span>, <span word="highlight">highlight</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="personality">personality</span>, <span word="like">like</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="purse">purse</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="book">book</span>.</p><p>不要赞美别人的眼睛这样天生的东西，要着重强调能展现他们个性的东西，比如包或书。</p><p>3. <span word="Bring">Bring</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shared">shared</span> <span word="interest">interest</span></p><p>3.聊共同的兴趣</p><p><span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="stranger">stranger</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="restaurant">restaurant</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="bar">bar</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reason">reason</span>. <span word="You">You</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="interest">interest</span>.</p><p>很多人认为和陌生人没什么共同点，但如果有人出现在一家餐厅或酒吧，那一定是有原因的。你们都出现在那儿，一定是有共同的兴趣。</p><p>4. <span word="Go">Go</span> <span word="simple">simple</span>… <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="bold">bold</span></p><p>4.简单一点，但也要大胆</p><p><span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="genuine">genuine</span> <span word="smile">smile</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="say">say</span>, “<span word="Hi">Hi</span>.” <span word="It">It</span> <span word="sounds">sounds</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="noticed">noticed</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="better">better</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hello">hello</span> <span word="back">back</span>.</p>
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