想要维持异地恋，你必须知道的这些
<p><span word="How">How</span> <span word="To">To</span> <span word="Handle">Handle</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Long">Long</span>-<span word="Distance">Distance</span> <span word="Talk">Talk</span></p><p>如何进行异地恋谈话</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="practice">practice</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="honest">honest</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="straightforward">straightforward</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="needs">needs</span>, <span word="where">where</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="going">going</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="talk">talk</span>. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="honest">honest</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="aside">aside</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="best">best</span>. <span word="Sure">Sure</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="miss">miss</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="hate">hate</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="winds">winds</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="cheating">cheating</span>.</p><p>最好的做法很简单，就是要诚实要坦率。你们需要认真审视感情、你们的需求和恋爱发展的方向，并好好聊一聊。一定要诚实。有些情感你很难把它放在一边，然后去考虑什么是最好的选择。当然有时谈过了你们也会彼此想念，但如果有一方说谎，另一方会很痛恨的。</p><p><span word="What">What</span> <span word="Real">Real</span> <span word="Women">Women</span> <span word="Say">Say</span>: " <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="awkward">awkward</span>, <span word="insecure">insecure</span>, <span word="teen">teen</span> <span word="self">self</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="choice">choice</span>," <span word="says">says</span> <span word="Elyse">Elyse</span>, 31. " <span word="I">I</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="his">his</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="immediate">immediate</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="definitive">definitive</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span>, <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="fairly">fairly</span> <span word="mature">mature</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="He">He</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="decide">decide</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span>. <span word="Several">Several</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="later">later</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="in">in</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="talked">talked</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="expressed">expressed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="willing">willing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="whatever">whatever</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="took">took</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="work">work</span>. "</p><p>异地恋女性亲身体会：31岁的<span word="Elyse">Elyse</span>说：“我觉得自己真的还记得第一次聊到我大学的选择时尴尬、缺乏安全感的青年时期的自己，我问他如果我离开他是否还会和我在一起。我也记得当时他没有立刻给我一个肯定的回答，我知道这当时让我很受伤，但我想现在回想起来当时他很成熟没有骗我，他要考虑好再决定是否愿意给我承诺。几个月以后我们依然在一起，聊到这件事时我们都表示愿意尽最大努力把恋爱继续下去。”</p>
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