怎样和异性搭讪才不尴尬?
<p>1. <span word="Start">Start</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="handshake">handshake</span></p><p>1.先握手</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="proper">proper</span> <span word="handshake">handshake</span> <span word="conveys">conveys</span> <span word="trust">trust</span>, <span word="respect">respect</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="equality">equality</span>. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>, <span word="smile">smile</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="shake">shake</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="elbow">elbow</span>.</p><p>1.适当的握手能表达信任、尊重和平等，要有眼神交流、微笑，握手时肘部用力。</p><p>2. <span word="First">First</span>, <span word="look">look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="singletons">singletons</span></p><p>2.首先，要选独处的人</p><p><span word="People">People</span> <span word="standing">standing</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="option">option</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="approach">approach</span>. <span word="Two">Two</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="standing">standing</span> <span word="shoulder">shoulder</span>-<span word="to">to</span>-<span word="shoulder">shoulder</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="groups">groups</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="closed">closed</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="tight">tight</span> <span word="circle">circle</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="newcomers">newcomers</span>.</p><p>独自站着的人最适合接近。肩并肩站着的两个人和围成小圈子的一群人可能不欢迎外人。</p><p>3. <span word="Practice">Practice</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="Server">Server</span></p><p>3.找服务员练习</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="ignored">ignored</span>, <span word="test">test</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="waters">waters</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="chatting">chatting</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="waiter">waiter</span>, <span word="waitress">waitress</span>, <span word="barista">barista</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="bartendert">bartendert</span>.</p><p>如果你害怕被人忽视，可以找男女服务员、咖啡师或者酒保搭话。</p><p>4. <span word="Offer">Offer</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="name">name</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="repeat">repeat</span> <span word="theirs">theirs</span></p><p>4.主动说出自己的名字并重复对方的名字</p><p><span word="Remember">Remember</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sweetest">sweetest</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="language">language</span>. <span word="Start">Start</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="like">like</span> “<span word="Hi">Hi</span>, <span word="my">my</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="Jane">Jane</span>. <span word="What">What</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="yours">yours</span>?” <span word="When">When</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="responds">responds</span>, <span word="repeat">repeat</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="back">back</span>: “<span word="Nice">Nice</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="John">John</span>.”</p><p>你要记住对一个人而言名字是所有语言中最好听最重要的声音。你可以这样开始聊天：“嗨，我叫<span word="Jane">Jane</span>，你叫什么名字？”对方回答之后可以重复一遍：“<span word="John">John</span>，很高兴见到你。”</p>
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