谈恋爱时如何像成年人一样讲道理？
<p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="handy">handy</span> <span word="tips">tips</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="argument">argument</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="grace">grace</span> <span word="intact">intact</span>.</p><p>以下是一些可行的建议，帮你优雅地争吵，还不伤感情。</p><p>1. <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="Whether">Whether</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Issue">Issue</span> <span word="Really">Really</span> <span word="Merits">Merits</span> <span word="Getting">Getting</span> <span word="Angry">Angry</span></p><p>1.问问自己这件事是否真的值得生气</p><p><span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="arguments">arguments</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="person">person</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="pride">pride</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="way">way</span>: <span word="It">It</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sense">sense</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="devote">devote</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="hours">hours</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="arguing">arguing</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="city">city</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="pizza">pizza</span>! <span word="Swallowing">Swallowing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="pride">pride</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="option">option</span>.</p><p>大多数时候发生争吵都是因为一个人的自尊心在作祟。但你可以从这个角度考虑：花两个小时争论谁家乡的披萨更好吃一点意义都没有！你可以选择收起你的骄傲。</p><p>2. <span word="Postpone">Postpone</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Argument">Argument</span> <span word="If">If</span> <span word="Necessary">Necessary</span></p><p>2.如果有必要就稍后再吵</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="irate">irate</span>, <span word="stop">stop</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ask">ask</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="discussion">discussion</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="exhausting">exhausting</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="tired">tired</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="hungry">hungry</span>, <span word="try">try</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="disagreement">disagreement</span>.</p><p>你感觉自己生气时就停下来问问自己是否能稍后再讨论，如果你刚从办公室回来筋疲力尽、或者累了饿了，尽量先搁置争议。</p><p>3. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="Hit">Hit</span> <span word="Below">Below</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Belt">Belt</span></p><p>3.不要恶语伤人</p><p><span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="tempting">tempting</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="arguments">arguments</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="issues">issues</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="score">score</span> <span word="points">points</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="immediate">immediate</span> <span word="issue">issue</span>, <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="expand">expand</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="arena">arena</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fight">fight</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="prevent">prevent</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="disagreement">disagreement</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="dark">dark</span> <span word="places">places</span>.</p>
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