不要太苛求自己
<p><span word="Sometimes">Sometimes</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="everybody">everybody</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="advocating">advocating</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span> <span word="what">what</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p><p>有时候人人都推崇的东西正是那些会害了你的东西。</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="overly">overly</span> <span word="harsh">harsh</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>.</p><p>其中一种就是对自己过于苛刻。</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="seeing">seeing</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="virtue">virtue</span>.</p><p>我们一直把它看成一种美德。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="silent">silent</span> <span word="whenever">whenever</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="fail">fail</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>但每当我们看到有人因此而一败涂地，却保持沉默了。</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="education">education</span> <span word="system">system</span>.</p><p>这或许和我们的教育系统有关。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="school">school</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="goal">goal</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="for">for</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="efforts">efforts</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="criteria">criteria</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="encounter">encounter</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="standard">standard</span> <span word="answers">answers</span>.</p><p>在学校里，你有明确的努力目标，而且你的努力有明确的评判标准，你遇到的问题都有标准答案。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="certain">certain</span> <span word="environment">environment</span>, <span word="any">any</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="avoided">avoided</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="environment">environment</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="spawned">spawned</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unhealthy">unhealthy</span> <span word="perfectionism">perfectionism</span>.</p><p>在这样一个无比确定的环境中，任何错误都是可以避免的，而这样的环境催生了一种不健康的完美主义。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="workplace">workplace</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="standard">standard</span> <span word="solutions">solutions</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="tasks">tasks</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="over">over</span>, <span word="therefore">therefore</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="inevitable">inevitable</span>.</p><p>在职场中，你接手的很多任务并没有标准的解决方案，犯错是不可避免的。</p>
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