你值得更好的社交圈
<p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="socialize">socialize</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="defines">defines</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span>.</p><p>有一句话叫：你的社交关系决定了你是什么样的人。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="inspiring">inspiring</span>.</p><p>我觉得这非常醍醐灌顶。</p><p><span word="Find">Find</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="healthier">healthier</span> <span word="socializing">socializing</span> <span word="way">way</span>.</p><p>找些更有营养的社交方式吧。</p><p><span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="fall">fall</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pit">pit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="gossip">gossip</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="office">office</span>.</p><p>别掉进八卦的深坑，尤其不要在职场里。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="participate">participate</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="workplace">workplace</span> <span word="gossip">gossip</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="afraid">afraid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="isolated">isolated</span>.</p><p>有些人参与职场八卦的原因是：他们害怕被孤立。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="situation">situation</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="drinking">drinking</span> <span word="poison">poison</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="quench">quench</span> <span word="thirst">thirst</span>.</p><p>如果这说的正好是你，那么你这就是饮鸩止渴了。</p><p><span word="One">One</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="worst">worst</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="workplace">workplace</span> <span word="gossip">gossip</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="logic">logic</span>. <span word="Participants">Participants</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="hope">hope</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="recognize">recognize</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="satisfaction">satisfaction</span>.</p><p>职场八卦最要命的一点是它并没有太多真正的逻辑，参与者们只是单纯希望其他人都来认可自己的观点，进而得到情绪上的满足。</p><p><span word="People">People</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="otherwise">otherwise</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="enemies">enemies</span>.</p><p>观点一致就是朋友，观点不一致就是敌人。</p><p><span word="Whether">Whether</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="gossip">gossip</span> <span word="concerns">concerns</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="colleague">colleague</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="private">private</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="celebrity">celebrity</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="essentially">essentially</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span>.</p>
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