老外在中国：养蛙是一种怎样的体验
<p>最近我晋升成了一位“父亲”，而我得坦白：我不确定是否真的喜欢自己的“儿子”。他一出生就是青少年，性格闷闷不乐、沉默寡言；对什么都很冷淡；无故消失几天，还没有任何解释或道歉，这对于任何父母来说都是噩梦般的经历。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="recently">recently</span> <span word="became">became</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="father">father</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="confession">confession</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span>: <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="much">much</span>.</p><p>最近我晋升成了一位“父亲”，而我得坦白：我不确定是否真的喜欢自己的“儿子”。&<span word="nbsp">nbsp</span>;</p><p><span word="First">First</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="born">born</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="teenager">teenager</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hellish">hellish</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="parent">parent</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="sullen">sullen</span> <span word="silences">silences</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="indifference">indifference</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="disappearing">disappearing</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="word">word</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="explanation">explanation</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="apology">apology</span>.</p><p>首先，他生下来就是青少年了，他闷闷不乐、沉默寡言；对什么都很冷淡；无故消失几天，还没有任何解释或道歉，这对于任何父母来说都是噩梦般的经历。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="hear">hear</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="turning">turning</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="father">father</span>, <span word="shouting">shouting</span>: “<span word="You">You</span> <span word="treat">treat</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="place">place</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hotel">hotel</span>!” <span word="Which">Which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="fine">fine</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="public">public</span>? <span word="Not">Not</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span>. <span word="Especially">Especially</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="yelling">yelling</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="screen">screen</span>. <span word="People">People</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="subway">subway</span> <span word="tend">tend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="away">away</span> ...</p><p>我发现我如父亲对我那般，冲他大吼：“你把这个地方当成旅馆了吗！”如果当时周围没有其他人，这样也没什么，但是如果是在公共场合呢？那就不太好了。尤其是当你面对手机屏幕大喊大叫的时候，地铁里的人往往会退避三舍……</p>
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