like、love、lust的区别
<p>记得原来看生活大爆炸的时候，<span word="Howard">Howard</span>有一集和<span word="Bernadette">Bernadette</span>约会，后来学会了一句话，<span word="Third">Third</span> <span word="date">date</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="sex">sex</span>，也就是说第三次约会的时候发生关系是比较符合美国文化的，回到本土的话，在传统的中国文化下，原则上是等到结婚后，虽然现在年轻人比较着急一些。年轻人将<span word="sex">sex</span>、<span word="dating">dating</span>、<span word="relationship">relationship</span>、<span word="like">like</span>、<span word="love">love</span>这几件事分不大清楚。</p><p>1. <span word="lust">lust</span>＜<span word="sex">sex</span>＜<span word="like">like</span>＜<span word="relationship">relationship</span>＜<span word="love">love</span>＜<span word="marriage">marriage</span></p><p>按照承诺的部分，情欲是最基本的，有情欲未必会行动，行动了为<span word="sex">sex</span>，有<span word="sex">sex</span>未必喜欢这个人，喜欢了未必会进入一段情感关系，有情感关系未必说爱，有了爱也未必结婚。</p><p>2. <span word="He">He</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="hot">hot</span>!</p><p>男神！纯粹的<span word="lust">lust</span>。</p><p>3. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="gotta">gotta</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="now">now</span>.</p><p>介于<span word="lust">lust</span>和<span word="sex">sex</span>之间的状态。</p><p>4. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lot">lot</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="future">future</span>.</p><p>这句话的意思是我喜欢她，但未必和她建立一段稳定的关系。</p><p>5. <span word="They">They</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>, <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="goofing">goofing</span> <span word="around">around</span>.</p><p>他们已经确立关系了，不是闹着玩的，也就是说比<span word="like">like</span>多一些，已经有了某种承诺。</p><p>6. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span>’<span word="m">m</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>.</p><p>爱未必到达婚姻，所以婚姻要包括前面很多的部分，要有<span word="lust">lust</span>、<span word="sex">sex</span>…一直到<span word="love">love</span>后的承诺。</p><p>其实对于这些事情区分的越细，对别人的拒绝也就更淡然，明白别人在什么位置，你在什么位置，也可以更理解别人的期待，很多人把<span word="sex">sex</span>作为<span word="relationship">relationship</span>进行到某种深度的标志，可惜的是在这里，这两件事情隔了蛮长的距离，大家教小孩的时候也记得让他们区分这些概念，以免受伤。</p>
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