15条永不过时的生活智慧[1]
<p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="great">great</span> <span word="benefit">benefit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="living">living</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="working">working</span> <span word="for">for</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="related">related</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="experienced">experienced</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="picking">picking</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="brain">brain</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="advice">advice</span>.</p><p>和比你有生活经验的人一起生活、或为之工作、或和他们有联系的最大的益处莫过于可以从他们那里得到建议。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="effective">effective</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="significant">significant</span> <span word="effort">effort</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="errors">errors</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span>.</p><p>效率高的人会从自己的错误中学习，并努力从别人的错误中学习。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="Quora">Quora</span> <span word="thread">thread</span> <span word="asked">asked</span> <span word="users">users</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="advice">advice</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="gotten">gotten</span>. <span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="few">few</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="greatest">greatest</span> <span word="excerpts">excerpts</span>:</p><p>最近<span word="Quora">Quora</span>上有一个帖子，问用户得到的最好的建议是什么。其中最好的几条摘录如下：</p><p>1. <span word="Never">Never</span> <span word="say">say</span> "<span word="but">but</span>."</p><p>不要说“但是” 。</p><p>"<span word="A">A</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="smart">smart</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="worked">worked</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="told">told</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="eliminated">eliminated</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span> '<span word="but">but</span>' <span word="from">from</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="vocabulary">vocabulary</span>, <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="d">d</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="greater">greater</span> <span word="acceptance">acceptance</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="greater">greater</span> <span word="cooperation">cooperation</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="team">team</span> <span word="members">members</span>... <span word="The">The</span> <span word="word">word</span> '<span word="but">but</span>' <span word="negates">negates</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="precedes">precedes</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="cast">cast</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="spin">spin</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="it">it</span>... '<span word="But">But</span>' <span word="is">is</span> <span word="exclusive">exclusive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="isolating">isolating</span>; '<span word="and">and</span>' <span word="is">is</span> <span word="inclusive">inclusive</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="welcoming">welcoming</span>."</p><p>“和我一起工作的一位非常聪明的女士曾经告诉我，如果我把‘但是’这个词从我的工作用语中去掉，那我的想法被别人接受的概率会更高，我的团队成员间的合作程度也会更好……‘但是’这个词把它之前的内容都否定了，当你用它的时候，你说的话都蒙上了消极的色彩……‘但是’是排外的和孤立的；‘并且’是包容的、受欢迎的。”</p>
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