不好说出口的“拒绝”
<p>不好说出口的“拒绝”</p><p>要拒绝别人光是说 <span word="No">No</span> 是不够的，还得要有充分的理由才行，特别是那些盛情难却的邀请、动用一大堆关系的请求。此外，要很客气又很礼貌地拒绝别人也是一门学问。例如别人约你出去，你要如何婉拒他，让人家下次还会愿意再找你呢? 如果别人邀请我一起出去玩，我一次不去，两次不去，第三次她就不会找我了。看来要拒绝别人还真是不容易。这次就让我们来看看怎样用英语拒绝别人。</p><p>1. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="sorry">sorry</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="down">down</span>.</p><p>我很抱歉必须拒绝你。 <span word="Turn">Turn</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="down">down</span> 就是拒绝别人的要求。譬如有人请我一起去唱<span word="K">K</span>，我很不喜欢这种吵吵闹闹的活动，就可以说：<span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="sorry">sorry</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="down">down</span>. 另外像是男生要追女生，女生要拒绝他，也可以用 <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="down">down</span>, 例如：<span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="sorry">sorry</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="down">down</span>. 另外不要忘了，<span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="down">down</span> 还有一个解释就是“把……关小”，通常指音量或是空调。注意可别把 <span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="down">down</span> 和 <span word="let">let</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="down">down</span> 搞混了，这两个可是完全不同的意思。<span word="turn">turn</span> <span word="down">down</span> 表示拒绝，而 <span word="let">let</span> <span word="down">down</span> 则表示让人家失望，例如 <span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span> 这首老歌中所唱的：<span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="down">down</span>. 2. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="hundreds">hundreds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span>.</p><p>我想去，可是我有好多好多事要做。 别人邀请你参加他们的活动，就算你不想去，也不要直接了当地说 <span word="No">No</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span>. 这样子别人下次可能就不会找你了。试着用这种比较好的说法：先说 <span word="I">I</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span>，或是 <span word="I">I</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="to">to</span>，再接着说 <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="got">got</span> <span word="hundreds">hundreds</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span>。这样感觉上比较礼貌，也不会让别人觉得很没面子。 3. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="am">am</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="mood">mood</span>.</p>
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