语死早如何避免聊天冷场？试试中度交谈吧
<p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="couple">couple</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="weeks">weeks</span> <span word="ago">ago</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="birthday">birthday</span> <span word="party">party</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bar">bar</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="work">work</span>.</p><p>几周前，我下了班到酒吧参加一位朋友的生日聚会。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="birthday">birthday</span> <span word="girl">girl</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> — <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hang">hang</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>.</p><p>过生日的女孩是朋友的朋友——我只是跟着自己朋友去玩的。</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="happens">happens</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="events">events</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="standing">standing</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="positioned">positioned</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="basically">basically</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="another">another</span>.</p><p>我又一次遇到了在这种场合下经常发生的事，那就是站在一位陌生人身旁，而且好像非要交谈一下不可。</p><p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="weird">weird</span>, <span word="otherwise">otherwise</span> — <span word="we">we</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="accidentally">accidentally</span> <span word="shunted">shunted</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="main">main</span> <span word="conversational">conversational</span> <span word="circle">circle</span> (<span word="it">it</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="gathering">gathering</span>) <span word="and">and</span> <span word="weren">weren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="center">center</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="pretend">pretend</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="on">on</span>.</p><p>如果不说话会有点奇怪——因为我们碰巧都在主要的谈话圈子外面（那是一个小聚会），我们离圈子中心太远了，没法假装成在听别人交谈。</p>
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