我为何忘不了前任?
<p><span word="My">My</span> <span word="ex">ex</span>-<span word="boyfriend">boyfriend</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="dated">dated</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="three">three</span> <span word="years">years</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="broke">broke</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="summer">summer</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="good">good</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="six">six</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="since">since</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span> - <span word="no">no</span> <span word="texts">texts</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="calls">calls</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="interactions">interactions</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="person">person</span> - <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="together">together</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="absolutely">absolutely</span> <span word="heartbroken">heartbroken</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="miserable">miserable</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="since">since</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="broke">broke</span> <span word="up">up</span>. <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="kept">kept</span> <span word="busy">busy</span>, <span word="spent">spent</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="focused">focused</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="hobbies">hobbies</span>, <span word="deleted">deleted</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="media">media</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="started">started</span> <span word="seeing">seeing</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="guys">guys</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="interest">interest</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="progress">progress</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="getting">getting</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="ex">ex</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="all">all</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="says">says</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="happen">happen</span> <span word="overnight">overnight</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="been">been</span> 180 <span word="days">days</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="cry">cry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="day">day</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="right">right</span>; <span word="why">why</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="any">any</span> <span word="better">better</span>? <span word="When">When</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="say">say</span> “<span word="it">it</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="takes">takes</span> <span word="time">time</span>,” <span word="there">there</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="time">time</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="reason">reason</span> <span word="is">is</span>: <span word="Nobody">Nobody</span> <span word="knows">knows</span>.</p><p>我和前男友分分合合三年了，但今年夏天，他和我一刀两断。我们已经6个月没有联系彼此了——没有短信，也没有电话，更没有面对面接触过——但我仍然像当初在一起时那般爱着他，自我们分手以来，我每一天都在心碎、痛苦中度过。我一直让自己处于忙碌状态、与朋友厮混、专注自己的兴趣、所有的社交账户都删除了他，甚至开始和其他男生约会，但我却对其他人提不起兴趣，我觉得在忘掉前任方面，我没有任何进展。我知道每个人都会说你不可能一夜之间就忘掉他的，但分手至今已经180天了，而我仍然每天以泪洗面。我感觉自己所做的一切都是正确的，但为什么就是好不了呢？当人们说“时间会治愈一切的，”但他们没有说具体需要多久，这也是有原因的。原因就是：鬼知道需要多久。</p>
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