2017届高考英语阅读素材：如何与他人友好相处并赢得友谊？
<p> 如何与他人友好相处并赢得友谊？</p><p> 1. <span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="skid">skid</span> <span word="chains">chains</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="tongue">tongue</span>; <span word="always">always</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="less">less</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span>. <span word="Cultivate">Cultivate</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="low">low</span>, <span word="persuasive">persuasive</span> <span word="voice">voice</span>. <span word="How">How</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="counts">counts</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="say">say</span>. 2. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="promises">promises</span> <span word="sparingly">sparingly</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="faithfully">faithfully</span>, <span word="no">no</span> <span word="matter">matter</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="costs">costs</span>. 3. <span word="Never">Never</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="pass">pass</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="encouraging">encouraging</span> <span word="word">word</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="somebody">somebody</span>. <span word="Praise">Praise</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="regardless">regardless</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="it">it</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="criticism">criticism</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="needed">needed</span>, <span word="criticize">criticize</span> <span word="helpfully">helpfully</span>, <span word="never">never</span> <span word="spitefully">spitefully</span>. 4. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="pursuits">pursuits</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="homes">homes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="families">families</span>. <span word="Make">Make</span> <span word="merry">merry</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="rejoice">rejoice</span>; <span word="with">with</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="weep">weep</span>, <span word="mourn">mourn</span>. <span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="meet">meet</span>, <span word="however">however</span> <span word="humble">humble</span>, <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="regard">regard</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="importance">importance</span>. 5. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="cheerful">cheerful</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="burden">burden</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="depress">depress</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="dwelling">dwelling</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="minor">minor</span> <span word="aches">aches</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="pains">pains</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="disappointments">disappointments</span>. <span word="Remember">Remember</span>, <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="carrying">carrying</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="load">load</span>. 6. <span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>. <span word="Discuss">Discuss</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="argue">argue</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="mark">mark</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="superior">superior</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="disagree">disagree</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="disagreeable">disagreeable</span>. 7. <span word="Let">Let</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="virtues">virtues</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>. <span word="Refuse">Refuse</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="another">another</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="vices">vices</span>. <span word="Discourage">Discourage</span> <span word="gossip">gossip</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="waste">waste</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="extremely">extremely</span> <span word="destructive">destructive</span>. 8. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="careful">careful</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="another">another</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span>. <span word="Wit">Wit</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="humor">humor</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="expense">expense</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="rarely">rarely</span> <span word="worth">worth</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="expected">expected</span>. 9. <span word="Pay">Pay</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ill">ill</span>-<span word="natured">natured</span> <span word="remarks">remarks</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Remember">Remember</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="carried">carried</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="message">message</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="accurate">accurate</span> <span word="reporter">reporter</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>. <span word="Simply">Simply</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="nobody">nobody</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Disordered">Disordered</span> <span word="nerves">nerves</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="digestion">digestion</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="backbiting">backbiting</span>. 10. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="anxious">anxious</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="credit">credit</span> <span word="due">due</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="best">best</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="patient">patient</span>. <span word="Forget">Forget</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="others">others</span> "<span word="remember">remember</span>." <span word="Success">Success</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="sweeter">sweeter</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="way">way</span>. 1. 给自己的嘴巴安上一把锁，不要试图讲出全部的想法。培养低调和富有感染力的言谈。说话的方式比内容更为重要。 2. 少作承诺，并保证它们的信誉。一旦作出承诺，无论付出多大代价都要履行。 3. 永远不要错过赞赏和鼓励别人的机会。不论是谁做的漂亮的工作，都给予称赞。如果需要提出意见，请以一种帮助的态度，而不是鄙夷的态度。 4. 关心别人的需要、工作、家庭和家人。与快乐的人一起快乐；与悲伤的人一起悲伤。让每一个与你交往的人，不论多么卑微，都能感觉到你对他的重视。 5. 做一个快乐的人。不要将自己不足一提的伤痛和失望传染给了周围的人。请记住，每个人都承担着某些压力。 6. 保持开放的心态。讨论但不要争论，不同意但不愤岔，是伟大心灵的标志。 7. 让你的美德自己来说话。拒绝谈论别人的短处，不要传播谣言。这些将浪费你宝贵的时间，并会极大地破坏你的人际关系。 8. 谨慎地对待别人的情感。揶揄和幽默并不值得以伤害别人为代价，尤其当你认为可能性很小的时候。 9. 无需担心关于你的流言。请记住，散播流言的人并非世界上最准确的报道员。以不变应万变。紧张不安加上坏心眼一般是背后议人是非的原因。 10.别太着急属于自己的信誉。将你自己做到最好，并要有耐心。忘记你自己，让别人来“记住”你。这样的成功更令人愉悦。</p>
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