2017届高考英语阅读素材：女性必读：成为极品女人的十大要素
<p> 女性必读：成为极品女人的十大要素</p><p> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="articles">articles</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="dictate">dictate</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="supposed">supposed</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="live">live</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="point">point</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="offer">offer</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="perspectives">perspectives</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="consider">consider</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="conscious">conscious</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="deliberate">deliberate</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>。 文章里的这些观点并不是要指示你如何生活，而是提供不同的思路供你参考，从而使你自己做出更为深思熟虑的选择。 1. <span word="Get">Get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="authentic">authentic</span> <span word="self">self</span>. 认清真实的自己。 <span word="Discover">Discover</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="blindly">blindly</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="role">role</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="conditioned">conditioned</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="fill">fill</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="path">path</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="follow">follow</span>. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="independent">independent</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="allow">allow</span> <span word="peer">peer</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="force">force</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="inauthentic">inauthentic</span> <span word="role">role</span>。 发现真实的自己。不要盲目接受别人习惯施加给你的角色。你有自己的路去走。成为独立自主的个体。不要在压力的屈从下扮演不真实的自己。 2. <span word="Own">Own</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="power">power</span>. 拥有自己的力量。 <span word="Accept">Accept</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="doormat">doormat</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sheep">sheep</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="victim">victim</span>. <span word="Stop">Stop</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="power">power</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="accept">accept</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="creator">creator</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="coming">coming</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="rescue">rescue</span> <span word="you">you</span>。 承担起你生活中应付的所有责任。不要活得像个擦鞋垫、绵羊或者受害者。不要放弃你的力量。你必须认为自己是生活的创造者，没有人会来拯救你。 3. <span word="Find">Find</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="voice">voice</span>. 倾听自己的声音。 <span word="Build">Build</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="courage">courage</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="express">express</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="authentically">authentically</span>. <span word="Speak">Speak</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="truth">truth</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="deserve">deserve</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="heard">heard</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="react">react</span> <span word="negatively">negatively</span>, <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="problem">problem</span>. <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span>; <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="expect">expect</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="mind">mind</span>-<span word="readers">readers</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="teach">teach</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="treated">treated</span>--<span word="not">not</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="dropping">dropping</span> <span word="hints">hints</span> <span word="but">but</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="telling">telling</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="directly">directly</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="will">will</span>? 真实地建立起表达自己的勇气。说出你的事实。你值得别人倾听。如果别人反应很消极，那是他们的问题。问问自己想要什么；不能指望别人能读懂你的心。告诉别人你想被如何对待——不是给出提示而是直接告诉他们。如果你不能为自己大声说出需求，还有谁会为你这样做呢？ 4. <span word="Find">Find</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="tribe">tribe</span>. 寻找自己的部落。 <span word="Consciously">Consciously</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="nurture">nurture</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="supportive">supportive</span> <span word="network">network</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="positive">positive</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="including">including</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="Drop">Drop</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="drain">drain</span> <span word="you">you</span>; <span word="maintaining">maintaining</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="abuse">abuse</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="current">current</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="that">that</span>. <span word="Surround">Surround</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="inspire">inspire</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="deserve">deserve</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>。 有意识地建立和培养一个积极的包括家庭和朋友在内的人际关系网，结束拖你后腿的关系；维持这些关系纯属自责。如果你不喜欢当下的关系，那么自己决定是否改变。让围绕在你周围的都是爱你和鼓舞你的人。你值得拥有最好的人际关系。 5. <span word="Practice">Practice</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="care">care</span>. 照顾好自己的感受。 <span word="Give">Give</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="permission">permission</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span>. <span word="Demands">Demands</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="wait">wait</span>. <span word="Accept">Accept</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="empty">empty</span> <span word="inside">inside</span>。 允许自己做喜欢的事情。别人的需要可以等等。认清自己不能为所有的人做所有的事。当你内心空虚的时候，你便无法施与他人。 6. <span word="Express">Express</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="creative">creative</span> <span word="side">side</span>. 表达你的创造性。 <span word="Cultivate">Cultivate</span> <span word="outlets">outlets</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="creative">creative</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="expression">expression</span>. <span word="Explore">Explore</span> <span word="music">music</span>, <span word="art">art</span>, <span word="writing">writing</span>, <span word="poetry">poetry</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="artistic">artistic</span>. <span word="Put">Put</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="physical">physical</span> <span word="form">form</span>。 培养表达创造性的渠道，比如音乐，艺术，书法，诗歌等等。建立一套商业模式。让自己充满艺术感。把你的想法以自然的形式表露出来。 7. <span word="Embrace">Embrace</span> <span word="conscious">conscious</span> <span word="sexuality">sexuality</span>. 拥抱有意识的性行为。 <span word="You">You</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="alone">alone</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="decide">decide</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="role">role</span> <span word="sex">sex</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="play">play</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="answers">answers</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="enjoy">enjoy</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="let">let</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="enough">enough</span>. <span word="Different">Different</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="widely">widely</span> <span word="varying">varying</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sexual">sexual</span> <span word="expression">expression</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="personally">personally</span> <span word="preferred">preferred</span>, <span word="ranging">ranging</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="waiting">waiting</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="guilt">guilt</span>-<span word="free">free</span> <span word="one">one</span>-<span word="night">night</span> <span word="stands">stands</span>。 你必须自己决定性在你的生命中扮演的角色。你的答案没有对错之分。如果你想要而且乐在其中，那就让自己满足。不同的女性在性爱好方面存在很大的差异，有人一直等到结婚才会过性生活，有人则喜欢无罪的一夜情。 8. <span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span>. 让自己美丽。 <span word="True">True</span> <span word="beauty">beauty</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="inside">inside</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="can">can</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="found">found</span> <span word="beneath">beneath</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="load">load</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="cosmetics">cosmetics</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="surgical">surgical</span> <span word="alterations">alterations</span>. <span word="Recognize">Recognize</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="inside">inside</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="broadcast">broadcast</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="awareness">awareness</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="outside">outside</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span>。 真正的美发自内心。浓妆和整容不能使你美丽。让自己的内在成为一个美丽的人，然后通过外表传播出去，你就是美丽的。 9. <span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="open">open</span>. 打开自己的心灵。 <span word="Regardless">Regardless</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="badly">badly</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="past">past</span>, <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="open">open</span>. <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="think">think</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="rewards">rewards</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="outweigh">outweigh</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="risks">risks</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="again">again</span>. <span word="You">You</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="here">here</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="express">express</span> <span word="love">love</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="fear">fear</span>。 无论以前受了多么严重的伤害，你都要敞开心扉。你比自己想像的要坚强。爱的回报胜于再次受伤害。活在世上就是为了表达爱，而不是为了忧虑。 10. <span word="Become">Become</span> <span word="wise">wise</span>. 让自己明智起来。 <span word="You">You</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="highly">highly</span> <span word="intuitive">intuitive</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="deepening">deepening</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="intuition">intuition</span>. <span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="growing">growing</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="run">run</span>, <span word="your">your</span> <span word="wisdom">wisdom</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="greatest">greatest</span> <span word="assets">assets</span>, <span word="both">both</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="others">others</span>. (<span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="placed">placed</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="high">high</span> <span word="value">value</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="developing">developing</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="wisdom">wisdom</span>。) 你直觉很好，所以应该深化这种能力，相信自己的直觉。保持学习和成长。从长远来看，你的智慧会成为自己最大的资产之一，这对于满足自己的要求和帮助别人都是如此。(许多女性把增强智慧看得很重。) <span word="Being">Being</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="blindly">blindly</span> <span word="following">following</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="gender">gender</span> <span word="patterns">patterns</span>, <span word="nor">nor</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="rejecting">rejecting</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="patterns">patterns</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="rebelliously">rebelliously</span> <span word="embracing">embracing</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="opposites">opposites</span>. <span word="Ultimately">Ultimately</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="define">define</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="become">become</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="choice">choice</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="individual">individual</span>, <span word="regardless">regardless</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="thinks">thinks</span>. <span word="What">What</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="man">man</span>/<span word="woman">woman</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="wish">wish</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span>? <span word="Life">Life</span> <span word="awaits">awaits</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="answer">answer</span>…..。 做一名男性或者女性并不是盲目地去遵从流行的性别模式，也不是全盘否定这些模式而叛逆地反其道而行。从根本上说，你必须决定自己希望成为什么样的男人或女人。无论他人怎样想，作为一个个体，你必须为自己做出选择。你希望成为什么样的男人/女人？生活等待着你的答案……</p>
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