初为人母的母亲们分享了丈夫们犯的错
<p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>, <span word="all">all</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="huge">huge</span> <span word="learning">learning</span> <span word="curve">curve</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="Andrea">Andrea</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="facing">facing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="intense">intense</span> <span word="pain">pain</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="laboring">laboring</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span>, <span word="her">her</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="crucial">crucial</span> <span word="mistake">mistake</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="complaining">complaining</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span>. "<span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="miracle">miracle</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="made">made</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="second">second</span> <span word="baby">baby</span> <span word="together">together</span>," <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>. "<span word="He">He</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="break">break</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="massaging">massaging</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="lower">lower</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="labor">labor</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="wee">wee</span> <span word="hands">hands</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span>," <span word="she">she</span> <span word="adds">adds</span>.</p><p>作为新生儿的父母，我们都面临着巨大的学习任务。安德拉第一次生孩子，生了个女儿，正忍受着分娩的剧烈疼痛，而他的丈夫却在这时犯了致命的错误：抱怨自己的后背痛。“我们还生了二胎，真是个奇迹，”她说道。“在我分娩的时候，他也得以休息不用帮我按摩腰部，因为他当时手受伤了，”她补充道。</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="complain">complain</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="pain">pain</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="labor">labor</span> <span word="is">is</span> … <span word="nope">nope</span>. <span word="Never">Never</span>. <span word="Don">Don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="me">me</span>, <span word="just">just</span> <span word="having">having</span> <span word="major">major</span> <span word="surgery">surgery</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remove">remove</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="body">body</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="morning">morning</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="means">means</span>, <span word="let">let</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="prioritize">prioritize</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="McMuffin">McMuffin</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="eat">eat</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="labor">labor</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="long">long</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="these">these</span> <span word="dads">dads</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lesson">lesson</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="discretion">discretion</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="food">food</span> <span word="department">department</span>.</p><p>妻子在分娩的时候，丈夫唯一能够抱怨的时候就是……根本就不该抱怨。永远都不该。今早我就要动一项大手术剖腹产生孩子，但别管我了，无论如何最重要的是你的麦当劳麦满分早餐。我们都需要吃东西，的确有时候分娩过程会有点长。然而，这些（不懂事的）父亲可以在食品部门学一门叫做审时度势的课程。</p>
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