缺乏安全感吗?这真的要怪你父母
<p><span word="Yes">Yes</span>, <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="Parents">Parents</span>’ <span word="Fault">Fault</span></p><p>缺乏安全感吗？这真的要怪你父母</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="culture">culture</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="celebrates">celebrates</span> <span word="individualism">individualism</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="reliance">reliance</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="humans">humans</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="exquisitely">exquisitely</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="species">species</span>, <span word="thriving">thriving</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="company">company</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="suffering">suffering</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="isolation">isolation</span>. <span word="More">More</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="else">else</span>, <span word="our">our</span> <span word="intimate">intimate</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="thereof">thereof</span>, <span word="shape">shape</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="define">define</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>.</p><p>我们的文化赞美个人主义和自力更生，但人类是一种敏感的群居物种，相处良好的关系让人精神抖擞，孤独的人则感到痛苦。有没有亲密的人际关系，对于塑造和定义我们生活具有非同一般的作用。</p><p><span word="While">While</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="schools">schools</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="strains">strains</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="maintains">maintains</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="bonds">bonds</span>, <span word="from">from</span> <span word="Freudian">Freudian</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Gestalt">Gestalt</span>, <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="rigorously">rigorously</span> <span word="studied">studied</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="known">known</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="public">public</span>.</p><p>从佛洛伊德到格式塔，有很多学派在帮助我们了解维系人际关系，导致关系紧张的因素，但有一种理论对这方面进行了最为细致的研究，却有可能是最不为人所知的一个。</p>
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