父母的期望 Parents’ Expectation
<p><span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="responsible">responsible</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>, <span word="since">since</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="born">born</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="plan">plan</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="choose">choose</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="school">school</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>’ <span word="hobby">hobby</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>’ <span word="partners">partners</span>. <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="excellent">excellent</span> <span word="ones">ones</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="hope">hope</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>. <span word="While">While</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="kids">kids</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>, <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span>. <span word="Both">Both</span> <span word="sides">sides</span> <span word="reflect">reflect</span> <span word="Chinese">Chinese</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>’ <span word="expectation">expectation</span>. <span word="Indeed">Indeed</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span>, <span word="my">my</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="No">No</span>.1, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="highest">highest</span> <span word="score">score</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="tired">tired</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="feel">feel</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="expectation">expectation</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="burden">burden</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="space">space</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="kids">kids</span>.</p><p>据说中国的父母是世界上最负责任的父母，打从孩子出生，他们就为孩子计划了一切，他们选择学校，孩子的业余爱好，甚至于孩子的玩伴。中国的父母想要把孩子培养成优秀的人，他们对孩子给予了很多的希望。然而据说中国的孩子是世界上最不幸福的孩子，因为他们按照父母的医院活着，没有自己的想法。两边的说法反应了中国的家庭现状，父母给予孩子太多压力，孩子对于父母的期望感到不开心。确实，我有同感，我的父母总是想要我成为第一名，他们告诉我要拿最高分，我觉得很累，告诉了父母自己的想法，然而他们开始意识到自己的期望已经成为了我的负担。父母应该给孩子一些空间。</p>
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