别让悲伤困住你 Don’ t have sadness haunt you
<p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="doubt">doubt</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="encounter">encounter</span> <span word="sad">sad</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="faced">faced</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="sadness">sadness</span>, <span word="different">different</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="attitudes">attitudes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="treat">treat</span> <span word="it">it</span>.</p><p>毫无疑问的,每个人在他的一生中都会遇上伤心的事情。然而，在面对悲伤，不同的人往往采取不同的态度对待。</p><p><span word="Generally">Generally</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wise">wise</span> <span word="regard">regard</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="sad">sad</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="experiences">experiences</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="indispensable">indispensable</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="What">What</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="more">more</span>, <span word="never">never</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="sadness">sadness</span> <span word="haunt">haunt</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span>. <span word="Quickly">Quickly</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="rid">rid</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sadness">sadness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="pleasures">pleasures</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="Thus">Thus</span>, <span word="their">their</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="seems">seems</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="fine">fine</span>. <span word="On">On</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="contrary">contrary</span>, <span word="some">some</span> <span word="pessimists">pessimists</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="sadness">sadness</span> <span word="haunt">haunt</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Their">Their</span> <span word="mind">mind</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="wanders">wanders</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="sad">sad</span> <span word="events">events</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="results">results</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="moodiness">moodiness</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="vexation">vexation</span> <span word="daylong">daylong</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="causes">causes</span> <span word="sleepless">sleepless</span> <span word="nights">nights</span>, <span word="poor">poor</span> <span word="diets">diets</span>, <span word="frequent">frequent</span> <span word="headaches">headaches</span>, <span word="etc">etc</span>. <span word="Obviously">Obviously</span>, <span word="none">none</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="results">results</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="want">want</span>.</p><p>一般而言，聪明的人将这些悲伤的事情当成有价值的经验，视之为他们生命中不可或缺的人生经历。更重要的是他们绝不会让这些悲伤困扰自己。他们很快会摆脱忧伤，找到新的生活乐趣。因此他们的生活似乎总是那么美好。与之相反，一些悲观者总是无法摆脱忧伤。他们的心思总是游离在过去的伤心事上，这些悲伤往事让他们整日闷闷不乐、困扰不安，甚至使得他们失眠、食欲不振、频频头疼等等。这些结果都不是我们所乐意的。</p>
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