别对我说谎,七种方法教你一眼识谎言
<p><span word="Nearly">Nearly</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="taught">taught</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kid">kid</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="lying">lying</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="bad">bad</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="society">society</span> <span word="puts">puts</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="falsehood">falsehood</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="liars">liars</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="truthful">truthful</span>. <span word="Little">Little</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="embellishing">embellishing</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="resume">resume</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="nice">nice</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="won">won</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="feelings">feelings</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="innocuous">innocuous</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="establish">establish</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pattern">pattern</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="deceit">deceit</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="fools">fools</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="deceiver">deceiver</span>. <span word="Ryan">Ryan</span> <span word="Lochte">Lochte</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="distinguish">distinguish</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="exaggeration">exaggeration</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="lying">lying</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="incident">incident</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="truth">truth</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="true">true</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="family">family</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span>, <span word="a">a</span> 2002<span word="University">University</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Massachusetts">Massachusetts</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="showed">showed</span> <span word="that">that</span> 60% <span word="of">of</span> <span word="adults">adults</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="least">least</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="any">any</span> 10-<span word="minute">minute</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>. <span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="dishonest">dishonest</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="day">day</span>! <span word="After">After</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="untruth">untruth</span> <span word="starts">starts</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="fabrication">fabrication</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="protect">protect</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truthful">truthful</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="liars">liars</span>. <span word="To">To</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="spot">spot</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="away">away</span>, <span word="here">here</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="research">research</span> <span word="experts">experts</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="behave">behave</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="lie">lie</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="included">included</span> <span word="links">links</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sources">sources</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="telling">telling</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="truth">truth</span>.</p><p>几乎每个人都曾被教育撒谎可耻,但事实却是,这个社会正遭受着不计其数的谎言,很多人成了撒谎者,然而,那些撒谎者自己却认为他们的想法是真实的。小的谎言,如那些用于装饰自己的履历或者假装友好以免伤害他人的行为都是无伤大雅的。而且他们那样的欺骗行为甚至连他们自己都信了。<span word="Ryan">Ryan</span> <span word="Lochte">Lochte</span>在他最近的一些事情中几乎区分不出夸张或者撒谎,其实,你身边的朋友,家人以及同事都是这样的。事实上,一份2002年麻省大学的研究表明,百分之六十的成年人至少每隔十分钟就会撒一次谎,而且这些人是不会认为自己是不诚实的。那可能是因为他们每天都会撒一个谎,毕竟,大分谎言是从自我欺骗开始的。在这虚虚假假的世界,你得保护自己,你得知道辨别真伪。为了帮你辨别出那些虚假的东西,专家们给了我们以下提示,关于人们在撒谎时是如何行为的。我们给予了相关链接,这样,你就不会认为我们是在撒谎了。</p>
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