我们应不应该与他人对比？Should We Compare Ourselves with Others?
<p><span word="Now">Now</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="significant">significant</span> <span word="numbers">numbers</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="beginning">beginning</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="themselves">themselves</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="harbor">harbor</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="idea">idea</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="comparison">comparison</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="differences">differences</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="others">others</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="strive">strive</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="retreat">retreat</span> <span word="surpassing">surpassing</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="success">success</span>.</p><p>现在很多人都拿自己和别人比较。他们怀着这样的想法，对比不仅能让他们意识到自己与他人之间的差异，也能使他们更加努力。他们把超越他人作为成功。</p><p><span word="Opinions">Opinions</span> <span word="vary">vary</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="person">person</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="attitude">attitude</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="comparing">comparing</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="passive">passive</span> <span word="effects">effects</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="On">On</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>, <span word="if">if</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="weaker">weaker</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="satisfied">satisfied</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="current">current</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="lose">lose</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ambition">ambition</span>. <span word="On">On</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="hand">hand</span>, <span word="compared">compared</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ones">ones</span> <span word="stronger">stronger</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span>.</p><p>不同的人对此有不同的看法。有些人认为把自己与他人相比对我们的生活有消极影响。一方面，如果你把自己和比你弱的人相比，你会满足于现状，从而丢失了野心。另一方面，与那些比你强的人相比，就会失去信心。</p><p><span word="All">All</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="every">every</span> <span word="coin">coin</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="sides">sides</span>. <span word="So">So</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="blindly">blindly</span>. <span word="But">But</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="compare">compare</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="before">before</span>. <span word="Only">Only</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="way">way</span>, <span word="can">can</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="advantages">advantages</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="weakness">weakness</span>.</p><p>总之，每个硬币都有两面。所以我们不应该盲目与他人对比。但是，我们可以与以前的自己相比。只有这样，我们才能发现自己的优点和弱点。</p>
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