家长间攀比对孩子造成的伤害 The Hurt on Children Between Parents’ Comparison
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="small">small</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>, <span word="while">while</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="suddenly">suddenly</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="called">called</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="talent">talent</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="awkward">awkward</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="child">child</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="hate">hate</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>’ <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="can">can</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="resist">resist</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>’ <span word="purpose">purpose</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="obvious">obvious</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="off">off</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>,</p><p><span word="so">so</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="face">face</span>. <span word="All">All</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="ignore">ignore</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="effect">effect</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span>, <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="hate">hate</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="it">it</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="dignity">dignity</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="someone">someone</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="toy">toy</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="rebel">rebel</span>. <span word="Parents">Parents</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="off">off</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="respected">respected</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="hurts">hurts</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="children">children</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="hearts">hearts</span>, <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="respect">respect</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span>, <span word="let">let</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="freedom">freedom</span>.</p><p>当我们小的时候，我们会不断遇到这样的情形，当我们的父母和朋友聊天的时候，突然间他们叫我们在他们的朋友面前表演才艺。这对每个孩子来说是很尴尬的情形，他们讨厌在父母的朋友面前表演，但是又不能抵抗父母叫他们做的。父母的目的很明显，他们想要在他们的朋友面前炫耀孩子，因此他们会有面子。所有的父母都忽视了对孩子造成的消极影响，他们不想要成为某人的玩具，所以孩子会变得反叛。父母不应该把孩子当成炫耀的资本，他们会有压力，需要被尊重。这伤害了孩子的心灵，父母应该多尊重孩子，让他们有更多的自由。</p>
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