丢掉伪装 寻找真实的爱
<p>试想，假如你用着山寨的苹果手机，穿着假名牌，心里是一种怎样的感受呢？</p><p><span word="Relationships">Relationships</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="too">too</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="way">way</span>. <span word="Eventually">Eventually</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fake">fake</span> <span word="label">label</span> <span word="falls">falls</span> <span word="off">off</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="seams">seams</span> <span word="bust">bust</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="handles">handles</span> <span word="break">break</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="quality">quality</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="isn">isn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="there">there</span>.</p><p>感情也常常是这样的。到最后，仿造的标志会掉，接缝会开线，手柄会坏，质量堪忧。</p><p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="clueless">clueless</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="riddled">riddled</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="blind">blind</span> <span word="spots">spots</span>. <span word="We">We</span> <span word="rarely">rarely</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="between">between</span> '<span word="faux">faux</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="full">full</span>' <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span>. <span word="Too">Too</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="masquerade">masquerade</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="real">real</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="spend">spend</span> <span word="countless">countless</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="phase">phase</span>, <span word="only">only</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="discover">discover</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="trapped">trapped</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="faux">faux</span> <span word="love">love</span> <span word="that">that</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="nowhere">nowhere</span>.</p><p>很多时候，我们没有头绪，被一叶障目。我们在感情里很难分清“山寨和正品”的区别，它常常伪装得如此真实。我们花了无数的时间依赖于它，希望自己得到升华，却只发现自己被困在一段虚假的感情中，毫无进展。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="real">real</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="growing">growing</span>; <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="somewhere">somewhere</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="shared">shared</span> <span word="interests">interests</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="unspoken">unspoken</span> <span word="acceptance">acceptance</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="building">building</span> <span word="blocks">blocks</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="place">place</span>, <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="setting">setting</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="pile">pile</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="agony">agony</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="heartache">heartache</span>.</p><p>真实的感情是看得到未来的。双方有共同的利益和默契。没有这些作为基础，你将深陷痛苦和心碎中。</p>
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