关于“love”的理解
<p>爱，欲望(<span word="desire">desire</span>)也。情(<span word="passion">passion</span>)为何物?动于中而形于外的表现。爱情是什么?欲由内生，获得满足，万事方休。爱情是一把双刃剑。俗话说：情字头上一把刀，弄不好会伤人。</p><p>英文<span word="love">love</span>属抽象名词。对它的解释，古往今来，莫衷一是。</p><p>我们不妨把<span word="love">love</span>四个字母拆开，不难发现，由此组成的新词似乎可以让我们得到启发：</p><p><span word="L">L</span>，<span word="look">look</span>看。</p><p>可以断言，产生爱情的首要触发器就是视觉(<span word="vision">vision</span>)。往往爱慕的发生就在<span word="first">first</span> <span word="look">look</span>(第一眼)。视觉决定感觉(<span word="Feeling">Feeling</span> <span word="depends">depends</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="vision">vision</span>)。那么，这种感觉究竟依据什么呢?<span word="Picasso">Picasso</span>(毕加索)给了我们一个终极答案：愿意厮守在一起的感觉(<span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="staying">staying</span> <span word="together">together</span>)。</p><p><span word="O">O</span>，<span word="only">only</span>唯一。</p><p>动物的本性就是自私(<span word="selfishness">selfishness</span>)。拥有了还要占有(<span word="Having">Having</span> <span word="turns">turns</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="occupying">occupying</span>.)。爱不能分享(<span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="shared">shared</span>)。所以，一句<span word="Only">Only</span> <span word="you">you</span>最为打动人心。为了这句话，<span word="I">I</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="die">die</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="you">you</span>.(愿意为你死)</p><p><span word="V">V</span>, <span word="vary">vary</span>变。</p><p>殊不知，静是相对的;动是绝对的。爱情也分萌芽、成长、成熟和衰退四个阶段。人无远虑必有近忧(<span word="A">A</span> <span word="man">man</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="distant">distant</span> <span word="care">care</span> <span word="must">must</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="near">near</span> <span word="sorrow">sorrow</span>)!情感是最脆弱的。一碰即碎。靠什么支撑才不至于坍塌呢?除家庭外，社会和事业参合到一起，是有力的牵制(<span word="be">be</span> <span word="tied">tied</span> <span word="down">down</span>)。男男女女都要不断地消耗精力。闲必生乱(<span word="Leisure">Leisure</span> <span word="causes">causes</span> <span word="trouble">trouble</span>)。</p>
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