社会对女孩的教条让女孩很难成功
<p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="she">she</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="girl">girl</span>, <span word="best">best</span>-<span word="selling">selling</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Momastery">Momastery</span> <span word="writer">writer</span> <span word="Glennon">Glennon</span> <span word="Doyle">Doyle</span> <span word="Melton">Melton</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="described">described</span> <span word="as">as</span> “<span word="pretty">pretty</span>” <span word="or">or</span> “<span word="adorable">adorable</span>.” <span word="People">People</span> <span word="commented">commented</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="childhood">childhood</span> <span word="beauty">beauty</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="strangers">strangers</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="drawn">drawn</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="smile">smile</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="Glennon">Glennon</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="adults">adults</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="confidence">confidence</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="clarity">clarity</span>, <span word="she">she</span> <span word="sensed">sensed</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="pulling">pulling</span> <span word="back">back</span>.</p><p>当著名畅销书作家格蕾侬还是个小女孩的时候常常被形容成“漂亮”、“可爱”。熟悉她的人赞叹她的美丽娇小，不熟悉她的人则沉醉于她迷人的微笑。当年轻的格蕾侬拥有了自己的思想，自信且观点鲜明地与这些成年人交谈时，他们则显得有些敬而远之。</p><p><span word="As">As</span> <span word="Glennon">Glennon</span> <span word="writes">writes</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="memoir">memoir</span>, “<span word="Love">Love</span> <span word="Warrior">Warrior</span>,” <span word="she">she</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="about">about</span> 10 <span word="years">years</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="disturbingrealization">disturbingrealization</span> <span word="hit">hit</span> <span word="her">her</span>: “<span word="I">I</span> <span word="begin">begin</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="beauty">beauty</span> <span word="warms">warms</span> <span word="people">people</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="smart">smart</span> <span word="cools">cools</span> <span word="people">people</span>.” <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="passage">passage</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="stands">stands</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Oprah">Oprah</span>, <span word="who">who</span> <span word="asks">asks</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="sit">sit</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="aired">aired</span> <span word="on">on</span> “<span word="SuperSoul">SuperSoul</span> <span word="Sunday">Sunday</span>.” <span word="Glennon">Glennon</span> <span word="begins">begins</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="describing">describing</span> <span word="society">society</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="expectation">expectation</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="girls">girls</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="influences">influences</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="psyche">psyche</span>.“<span word="I">I</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="wants">wants</span> <span word="girls">girls</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="quiet">quiet</span>,” <span word="she">she</span> <span word="says">says</span>. “<span word="As">As</span> <span word="long">long</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="able">able</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="small">small</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="quiet">quiet</span>, <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="fine">fine</span>.”</p><p>在她的回忆录中的《爱你的战士》一文中写道：美丽让人靠近，睿智让人疏远，这是10岁时经历的现实带给她的深刻记忆。这篇文章引起了<span word="Oprah">Oprah</span>的重视，在一次为期两个小时的直播访谈类节目“<span word="SuperSoul">SuperSoul</span> <span word="Sunday">Sunday</span>”中，她俩促膝长谈，格蕾侬说受世俗的影响，女孩们心理会产生变化。所有人对于女孩的期望就是：“漂亮、娇小、矜持。只要我能够做到这些那么你就会被世界温柔相待。”</p>
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