自夸的进阶境界是自黑?
<p>据说，自夸分三种境界。一种是张口直接夸，怎么好怎么夸，虽然招人烦，但也够直接。第二种是自谦型自夸，表面看是在谦虚呢，其实是在夸自己厉害，这种够虚伪。还有一种就是大无畏的自黑，因为够自信，所以敢自黑，各种尴尬事儿从不避讳。这才是自夸的最高境界。</p><p><span word="Humblebrag">Humblebrag</span> 谦虚自夸</p><p><span word="Humblebrag">Humblebrag</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="combination">combination</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="humble">humble</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="brag">brag</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lowest">lowest</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="despicable">despicable</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="loathsome">loathsome</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="self">self</span> <span word="promotion">promotion</span>, <span word="often">often</span> <span word="delivered">delivered</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="fragmented">fragmented</span> <span word="sentences">sentences</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="media">media</span>.</p><p><span word="Humblebrag">Humblebrag</span>，就是<span word="humble">humble</span>(谦虚)和<span word="brag">brag</span>(吹嘘、自夸)二词的合成形式，即“谦虚自夸”，是一种最低级、最让人鄙视、最令人厌恶的自我吹捧方式，通常以一两个零散句子的形式出现在社交媒体上。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="typical">typical</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="approach">approach</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="disingenuous">disingenuous</span> <span word="complaint">complaint</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="something">something</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="deprecating">deprecating</span> <span word="statement">statement</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="comment">comment</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="completely">completely</span> <span word="innocuous">innocuous</span>, <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="vehicle">vehicle</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="deliver">deliver</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="message">message</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="invariably">invariably</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="favorable">favorable</span> <span word="light">light</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="shows">shows</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="attention">attention</span> <span word="seeking">seeking</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="insecure">insecure</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="are">are</span>.</p><p>常见的典型“谦虚自夸”手段就是通过对某事很虚无的抱怨、自我贬低式的言论或者对某个毫无关联事物的评论来传递他真正想传达的信息，而这个信息体现的肯定是他好的一面。事实上，这种谦虚自夸行为说明他们是极度需要关注、极度缺乏安全感的一群人。</p>
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