让陌生人为我做选择I am no decider
<p>生活中选择太多，让我不知所措。于是我想出了一个好办法：让别人来帮我作选择。选炸面圈，挑衣服，……诸如此类的事情我都交给了陌生人去做。也许最后选出的东西并不是我想要的，但至少我不用再大伤脑筋唯恐选错了。</p><p><span word="These">These</span> <span word="days">days</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="labor">labor</span> <span word="through">through</span>, <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="basic">basic</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="paper">paper</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="plastic">plastic</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="grocery">grocery</span> <span word="checkout">checkout</span> <span word="counter">counter</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="nearly">nearly</span> <span word="suicide">suicide</span>-<span word="inducing">inducing</span>, <span word="such">such</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>-<span word="and">and</span>-<span word="family">family</span> <span word="plan">plan</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="unlimited">unlimited</span> <span word="texting">texting</span>.</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="tough">tough</span> <span word="times">times</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="abundance">abundance</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="life">life</span>-<span word="changing">changing</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span>—<span word="finances">finances</span>, <span word="health">health</span> <span word="care">care</span>, <span word="career">career</span> <span word="moves">moves</span>—<span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="overwhelming">overwhelming</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="take">take</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="Ask">Ask</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="guy">guy</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="wrote">wrote</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="book">book</span> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="Psychology">Psychology</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="Judgment">Judgment</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="Decision">Decision</span> <span word="Making">Making</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="Scott">Scott</span> <span word="Plous">Plous</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span> <span word="professor">professor</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="Wesleyan">Wesleyan</span> <span word="University">University</span>. “<span word="There">There</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="question">question</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="ever">ever</span> <span word="before">before</span>,” <span word="Plous">Plous</span> <span word="agreed">agreed</span>. “<span word="And">And</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="generally">generally</span> <span word="harder">harder</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="time">time</span>-<span word="consuming">consuming</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="lots">lots</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="alternatives">alternatives</span>.”</p><p><span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="Steve">Steve</span> <span word="Jobs">Jobs</span>, <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="technology">technology</span> <span word="allows">allows</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="misery">misery</span> <span word="of">of</span> 18,000 <span word="music">music</span> <span word="selections">selections</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="pockets">pockets</span>, <span word="has">has</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="counteract">counteract</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="choices">choices</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="wearing">wearing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="outfit">outfit</span>—<span word="blue">blue</span> <span word="jeans">jeans</span>, <span word="black">black</span> <span word="turtleneck">turtleneck</span>, <span word="New">New</span> <span word="Balance">Balance</span> <span word="sneakers">sneakers</span>—<span word="every">every</span> <span word="single">single</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="life">life</span>. <span word="With">With</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="move">move</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="make">make</span>, <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="bombarded">bombarded</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="predicaments">predicaments</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="banal">banal</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="extraordinary">extraordinary</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="obviously">obviously</span> <span word="can">can</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="decisions">decisions</span> <span word="anymore">anymore</span>—<span word="look">look</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="that">that</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="gotten">gotten</span> <span word="you">you</span>.</p>
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