教你五招轻松识破谎言
<p>如果你看过美剧《<span word="Lie">Lie</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="Me">Me</span>》，一定会觉得剧中的故事不可思议：通过观察一个人的面部表情、肢体语言和语音语调，男主角<span word="Lightman">Lightman</span>博士就能判断一个人是否在说谎，以及为什么说谎。其实，只要掌握一些基本技巧，你也能识破生活中的谎言哦，一起来看看吧!</p><p><span word="Society">Society</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span> <span word="collapse">collapse</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dozens">dozens</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="tiny">tiny</span> <span word="lies">lies</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="permit">permit</span> <span word="ourselves">ourselves</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="day">day</span>. <span word="Mostly">Mostly</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="simple">simple</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="manners">manners</span>. <span word="For">For</span> <span word="instance">instance</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="breaking">breaking</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="reassure">reassure</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="that">that</span> “<span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="me">me</span>”, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="reality">reality</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="certainly">certainly</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p><p><span word="We">We</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lie">lie</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="age">age</span>: <span word="every">every</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="recognise">recognise</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="child">child</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="puts">puts</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="mouth">mouth</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="stating">stating</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="blatant">blatant</span> <span word="lie">lie</span>. <span word="From">From</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="steadily">steadily</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="lying">lying</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="grow">grow</span> <span word="older">older</span>, <span word="gradually">gradually</span> <span word="refining">refining</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="technique">technique</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="full">full</span> <span word="adulthood">adulthood</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="experts">experts</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="art">art</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="deception">deception</span>.</p><p><span word="Of">Of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="human">human</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="behaviours">behaviours</span>, <span word="it">it</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="perhaps">perhaps</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hardest">hardest</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="detect">detect</span>. <span word="That">That</span> <span word="said">said</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="various">various</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="help">help</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="lying">lying</span>.</p><p><span word="Are">Are</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span>?</p><p><span word="Lying">Lying</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="symptoms">symptoms</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="situations">situations</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="tempted">tempted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="lie">lie</span>, <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="simply">simply</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="nervous">nervous</span>—<span word="trying">trying</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cover">cover</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="orwoo">orwoo</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="possible">possible</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="trick">trick</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="establish">establish</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="person">person</span>’<span word="s">s</span> “<span word="baseline">baseline</span>” <span word="behaviour">behaviour</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="deviations">deviations</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="normally">normally</span> <span word="relaxed">relaxed</span>, <span word="then">then</span>, <span word="blinking">blinking</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="quick">quick</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="movement">movement</span>, <span word="licking">licking</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="lips">lips</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="touching">touching</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="face">face</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="denote">denote</span> <span word="lying">lying</span>.</p>
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