和小女孩儿的谈话技巧，你知道多少
<p>如今，社会的审美标准让各年龄段的女性面临前所未有的压力。然而，女人的价值就体现在容貌和吃穿打扮上吗?不妨从和小女孩儿的谈话开始改变这一切吧。</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="went">went</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="dinner">dinner</span> <span word="party">party</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="friend">friend</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="home">home</span> <span word="last">last</span> <span word="weekend">weekend</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="five">five</span>-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="daughter">daughter</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="time">time</span>.</p><p><span word="Little">Little</span> <span word="Maya">Maya</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="curly">curly</span> <span word="brown">brown</span> <span word="hair">hair</span>, <span word="dark">dark</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="adorable">adorable</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="shiny">shiny</span> <span word="pink">pink</span> <span word="nightgown">nightgown</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="squeal">squeal</span>, “<span word="Maya">Maya</span>, <span word="you">you</span>’<span word="re">re</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="cute">cute</span>! <span word="Look">Look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="you">you</span>! <span word="Turn">Turn</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="model">model</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="ruffled">ruffled</span> <span word="gown">gown</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="gorgeous">gorgeous</span> <span word="thing">thing</span>!”</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>’<span word="t">t</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="squelched">squelched</span> <span word="myself">myself</span>. <span word="As">As</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="bite">bite</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="tongue">tongue</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="girls">girls</span>, <span word="restraining">restraining</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="impulse">impulse</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="tell">tell</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="darn">darn</span> <span word="cute">cute</span>/ <span word="pretty">pretty</span>/ <span word="beautiful">beautiful</span>/ <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="dressed">dressed</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span>.</p><p><span word="What">What</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="that">that</span>? <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="standard">standard</span> <span word="talking">talking</span>-<span word="to">to</span>-<span word="little">little</span>-<span word="girls">girls</span> <span word="icebreaker">icebreaker</span>, <span word="isn">isn</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="it">it</span>? <span word="And">And</span> <span word="why">why</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="give">give</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="sincere">sincere</span> <span word="compliment">compliment</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span>? <span word="Because">Because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="darling">darling</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="burst">burst</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="honestly">honestly</span>.</p><p><span word="Hold">Hold</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>.</p><p><span word="News">News</span> <span word="reported">reported</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="nearly">nearly</span> <span word="half">half</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="three">three</span>- <span word="to">to</span> <span word="six">six</span>-<span word="year">year</span>-<span word="old">old</span> <span word="girls">girls</span> <span word="worry">worry</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="fat">fat</span>. 15 <span word="to">to</span> 18 <span word="percent">percent</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="girls">girls</span> <span word="under">under</span> 12 <span word="now">now</span> <span word="wear">wear</span> <span word="mascara">mascara</span>, <span word="eyeliner">eyeliner</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="lipstick">lipstick</span> <span word="regularly">regularly</span>; <span word="eating">eating</span> <span word="disorders">disorders</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="esteem">esteem</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="down">down</span>. <span word="Even">Even</span> <span word="bright">bright</span>, <span word="successful">successful</span> <span word="college">college</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="d">d</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="hot">hot</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="smart">smart</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Miami">Miami</span> <span word="mom">mom</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="died">died</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="cosmetic">cosmetic</span> <span word="surgery">surgery</span>, <span word="leaving">leaving</span> <span word="behind">behind</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="teenagers">teenagers</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="keeps">keeps</span> <span word="happening">happening</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="breaks">breaks</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="heart">heart</span>.</p>
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