奔三的你，是否也面临着“万年危机”?
<p>每当身边有人谈起“奔三”的话题，周围就弥漫着一种恐慌的气氛，把30岁说得好像洪水猛兽一样可怕。究其根源，大概是因为在中国的文化里，“三十而立”这个概念深入人心，而当下很多年轻人可能从心理上或者生活状态上还没有完全进入“而立”的境界，所以难免会有些焦虑不安，也就是所谓的“成年危机”吧。</p><p><span word="A">A</span> <span word="thrisis">thrisis</span> <span word="usually">usually</span> <span word="occurs">occurs</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ages">ages</span> <span word="of">of</span> 26 <span word="and">and</span> 32, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="final">final</span> <span word="push">push</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="adulthood">adulthood</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="describes">describes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="crept">crept</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="lives">lives</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="our">our</span> 20<span word="s">s</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="hit">hit</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="big">big</span> 30, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="period">period</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="young">young</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="old">old</span> <span word="enough">enough</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="old">old</span>.</p><p><span word="Thrisis">Thrisis</span>(成年危机)常见于26到32岁之间，是真正进入成年期之前的最后一个阶段。“成年危机”描述的是我们在告别20年华直奔30岁月时的焦虑心情，这个年龄段的人们通常都属于“不算太小，又不算太大”的人群。</p><p><span word="Thrisis">Thrisis</span>这个词其实就是<span word="three">three</span>和<span word="crisis">crisis</span>两个词的混成形式，这样的结合表达出了人们临近3字头年龄时的危机感。<span word="Many">Many</span> 30-<span word="somethings">somethings</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="slow">slow</span> <span word="path">path</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="hitting">hitting</span> <span word="traditional">traditional</span> <span word="adult">adult</span> <span word="milestones">milestones</span>. <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="struggle">struggle</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="meaning">meaning</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="evaluate">evaluate</span> <span word="where">where</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="professional">professional</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="experiencing">experiencing</span> <span word="job">job</span> <span word="burnout">burnout</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="grey">grey</span> <span word="area">area</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="finagle">finagle</span> <span word="through">through</span>, <span word="avoiding">avoiding</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="responsibilities">responsibilities</span>, <span word="yet">yet</span> <span word="still">still</span> <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="claim">claim</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="ravishing">ravishing</span> <span word="days">days</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="dark">dark</span> <span word="nights">nights</span>, <span word="city">city</span> <span word="streetlights">streetlights</span>, <span word="pumping">pumping</span> <span word="fists">fists</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="club">club</span> <span word="noise">noise</span>.</p>
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