你真的懂得如何聊天吗?对话时该不该做什么你知道吗?
<p>1.<span word="Look">Look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="nod">nod</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="listen">listen</span></p><p>眼睛看着和你说话的人，聆听的时候点头作为回应</p><p>谈话的时候眼睛看着对方表示你在认真听对方说话，这点对于将谈话进行下去来说很重要。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="down">down</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="person">person</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="comfortable">comfortable</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="ignored">ignored</span>.</p><p>如果你看别的地方，或者看下面，和你谈话的人可能会觉得不舒服并且感觉被忽略了。</p><p>他们可能会慢下来或者停止和你谈话。另外重要的一点是你可以通过点头来表示你在聆听对方并理解对方所说的内容。通常地你可以通过点头来表示理解了正在讨论的话题。如果你用力点头则表明你同意了刚刚谈论的观点。</p><p>2. <span word="Keep">Keep</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="devices">devices</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="talking">talking</span></p><p>谈话时请远离你的移动设备</p><p>另外要注意的一点是当谈话时请把你的手机或者其他设备放在一边。如果你在电脑前，最好将你的脸转过来面对对方，这样你才可以和对方开始一段没有干扰的对话。</p><p><span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="looking">looking</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="across">across</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="rude">rude</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="send">send</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="signal">signal</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>.</p><p>当别人和你说话时如果你在看手机，这可能会很粗鲁，表示你对他说的内容不感兴趣。</p>
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