如何正视告别学校、毕业后的自己
<p>毕业的时候，你踏出大学校门，迈出第一步，走进这个艰险的大世界，怎么说呢?有点点无所适从吧。</p><p>毕业之后的过渡期，很容易迷失自我、感到迷惘。</p><p>这里教你如何保持自信、相信自己，哪怕你踟蹰不前、要面临这个日新月异的新世界。</p><p>1、不要再觉得你应该无所不知</p><p>事情就是不确定的，企图斗争好比和一头怒熊抗衡、争夺鲜鱼。你只会精疲力竭、担惊受怕、身心俱碎。放松一点，明白世事无常乃常态。要知道，尽最大努力这种做法本身就是不错的回应。</p><p>2、两相权衡，游戏比成功重要</p><p>外在的成功来得容易、甚至可以说来得廉价。所以说，是通过游戏竞争、去参与你觉得开心和能带动你的事情， 去体验更多的成功，而不是去迎合外界带给你的期冀。</p><p>3、停止比较</p><p>如今，每次你与他人相较，你就有贬低自己、削弱自己效益的风险，甚至有自我膨胀的危险。比较无甚相关，唯一相关的是你做决策的能力。</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="graduate">graduate</span>, <span word="taking">taking</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="steps">steps</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="College">College</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="University">University</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="big">big</span>, <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="world">world</span> <span word="is">is</span>, <span word="how">how</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="it">it</span>...<span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="messed">messed</span> <span word="up">up</span>.</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="post">post</span>-<span word="graduation">graduation</span> <span word="transition">transition</span>, <span word="it">it</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="lost">lost</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="confused">confused</span>.</p>
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