那些短命的恋爱，给我们的刻骨的教训
<p><span word="It">It</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="easy">easy</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="back">back</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="past">past</span> <span word="relationships">relationships</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="remember">remember</span> <span word="only">only</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="negatives">negatives</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="catalog">catalog</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mistakes">mistakes</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="dwell">dwell</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="wasted">wasted</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="left">left</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="emotional">emotional</span> <span word="baggage">baggage</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="broken">broken</span> <span word="heart">heart</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="else">else</span>.</p><p>想起过往的恋情，人们通常只记得不好的地方。你把自己的错误区分开来，不断回忆过去你浪费在这个人身上的时间，这个人让你感情受挫、心碎不已，除此之外几乎没留下任何东西。</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="instead">instead</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="looked">looked</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="split">split</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="educational">educational</span> <span word="experience">experience</span> (<span word="albeit">albeit</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="painful">painful</span> <span word="one">one</span>) <span word="that">that</span> <span word="taught">taught</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="valuable">valuable</span> <span word="lessons">lessons</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="absolutely">absolutely</span> <span word="don">don</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="next">next</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span>? <span word="Earlier">Earlier</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="week">week</span>, <span word="Redditors">Redditors</span> <span word="did">did</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="that">that</span>, <span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="important">important</span> <span word="lesson">lesson</span> <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="learned">learned</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="heartbreak">heartbreak</span>.</p><p>但是如果你把一段破裂的关系看作一个学习的机会(虽然是非常痛苦的一段)，会教会你一些有价值的教训，让你在下一段恋情中清楚地知道你想要什么、不想要什么。这周前几天，<span word="Reddit">Reddit</span>的忠实读者们在网上将他们失败恋情得来的惨痛教训分享出来。</p><p>1. "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="preserve">preserve</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="identity">identity</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="space">space</span>. <span word="Embrace">Embrace</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="individuality">individuality</span>, <span word="pursue">pursue</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="interests">interests</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="sharing">sharing</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="couple">couple</span>."</p><p>“你要不能失去自我，要保留一份自己的空间。热爱自己的个性之处，在和对方分享自己一部分兴趣的同时，追求自己的那一部分。”</p>
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