失恋这件小事给我们的一些小教训(下)
<p>4. <span word="Complete">Complete</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span></p><p>完善你自己</p><p><span word="I">I</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="agree">agree</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="improve">improve</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="fill">fill</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="joy">joy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="wonderful">wonderful</span> <span word="colors">colors</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="realize">realize</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="complete">complete</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span>. <span word="There">There</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="validation">validation</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>. <span word="First">First</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="all">all</span>, <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="cultivate">cultivate</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="love">love</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="share">share</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="beloved">beloved</span>. <span word="Try">Try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="find">find</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span> <span word="confident">confident</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="complete">complete</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="requires">requires</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="actions">actions</span>, <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span>, <span word="emotions">emotions</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="behaviors">behaviors</span>.</p><p>我赞成其他人能够帮助你提高自我、并且让你的生活更加美好和丰富多彩，但是你应该意识到，人们永远不会去成全你或者满足你的期望。没有必要事事都要得到另一半的批准。首先，在能够和爱人分享你的爱之前，你要学会爱自己。试着提升自己，慢慢地你会变得更加自信、更加完整。这就需要你改变你的行动、想法、情感和言谈举止。</p><p>5. <span word="Don">Don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span></p><p>不要试图改变你的另一半</p><p><span word="You">You</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="world">world</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="almost">almost</span> <span word="impossible">impossible</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="outlook">outlook</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="habits">habits</span>. <span word="All">All</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="path">path</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="internal">internal</span> <span word="desire">desire</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="change">change</span>, <span word="they">they</span>’<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="shift">shift</span>. <span word="A">A</span> <span word="humanpsyche">humanpsyche</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="capacity">capacity</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="ignore">ignore</span> <span word="things">things</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ideas">ideas</span> <span word="strongly">strongly</span> <span word="imposed">imposed</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="others">others</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="temporary">temporary</span> <span word="improvements">improvements</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span> <span word="return">return</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="casual">casual</span> <span word="habits">habits</span> <span word="again">again</span>. <span word="If">If</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="cannot">cannot</span> <span word="stand">stand</span> <span word="something">something</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>, <span word="then">then</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="should">should</span> <span word="shift">shift</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="energy">energy</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="react">react</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="way">way</span>. <span word="It">It</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="stay">stay</span> <span word="calm">calm</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="respond">respond</span> <span word="everything">everything</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="cold">cold</span> <span word="blood">blood</span>.</p>
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