办公室里的“暗香型女性”
<p> 办公室里你更喜欢哪一类人，是那些表现张扬、事事争先的高调者还是那些看似低调实则高明，以气质或细腻的技巧取胜的<span word="low">low</span>-<span word="profile">profile</span> <span word="women">women</span>（暗香型女性）？</p><p> </p><p> <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="female">female</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="workers">workers</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="popular">popular</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span>, <span word="earning">earning</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="superiors">superiors</span>’ <span word="trust">trust</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="easily">easily</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="low">low</span> <span word="profile">profile</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="professionally">professionally</span> <span word="sophisticated">sophisticated</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="tastefully">tastefully</span> <span word="polished">polished</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="sharp">sharp</span> <span word="contrast">contrast</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="flamboyant">flamboyant</span> <span word="peers">peers</span>.</p><p> 古诗词中，“蛾儿雪柳黄金缕，笑语盈盈暗香去”“东篱把酒黄昏后，有暗香盈袖”，都用“暗香”形容女人的神秘美妙。这里“暗香型女性”，是指以细腻和典雅的气质取胜的女性，她们看似低调实则高明，在职场中比花枝招展型更能赢得同事的好感和上司的信赖。</p><p> <span word="You">You</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="opinions">opinions</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="those">those</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="contain">contain</span> <span word="lots">lots</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="flaws">flaws</span>. <span word="However">However</span>, <span word="proposing">proposing</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="straightly">straightly</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="cause">cause</span> <span word="discontentment">discontentment</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="colleagues">colleagues</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="considered">considered</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="keen">keen</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="putting">putting</span> <span word="down">down</span> <span word="others">others</span>.</p><p> 或许你的意见比同事高明，他的提议真的漏洞种种，但是你直接地提出，很可能会让大家对你心生不满，觉得你不择手段，以打击别人为乐事。</p><p> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="virtue">virtue</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="low">low</span>-<span word="profile">profile</span> <span word="women">women</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="work">work</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="neglect">neglect</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="accomplishing">accomplishing</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="work">work</span>, <span word="leading">leading</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="doubt">doubt</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="working">working</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="repulse">repulse</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="ambitious">ambitious</span> <span word="woman">woman</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="raise">raise</span> <span word="people">people</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="expectations">expectations</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="them">them</span>.</p>
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