帮孩子扫清障碍的“扫雪机父母”
<p> 作业不会做，有爸爸帮忙解决；手工不会做，有妈妈来完成；哪门功课稍有落后，家教立马就请过来了。他们的要求只有一点：孩子，你要成功。这样的父母被称为“扫雪机父母”。他们会帮助孩子扫清前进道路上的所有障碍。</p><p> </p><p> <span word="Most">Most</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="familiar">familiar</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="concept">concept</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> '<span word="helicopter">helicopter</span> <span word="parent">parent</span>' <span word="who">who</span> <span word="hovers">hovers</span> <span word="anxiously">anxiously</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="child">child</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="move">move</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="new">new</span> <span word="parenting">parenting</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="been">been</span> <span word="identified">identified</span> - <span word="and">and</span> <span word="experts">experts</span> <span word="say">say</span> '<span word="snowplough">snowplough</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>', <span word="who">who</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="obstacle">obstacle</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="child">child</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="path">path</span> <span word="while">while</span> <span word="piling">piling</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="pressure">pressure</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span>, <span word="can">can</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="bit">bit</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="damaging">damaging</span>.</p><p> 我们大部分人对“直升机父母”这个概念已经比较熟悉了，这一类父母时刻都在关注孩子的一举一动。现在又出现了新的一类父母——扫雪机父母，他们会扫清孩子成功路上的所有障碍，但同时也因此给孩子造成很多压力，专家认为这种教育方式让孩子受害不浅。</p><p> <span word="Snowplough">Snowplough</span> <span word="parenting">parenting</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="becoming">becoming</span> <span word="increasingly">increasingly</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="UK">UK</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="US">US</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="nearly">nearly</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="quarter">quarter</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="teenagers">teenagers</span> <span word="supplied">supplied</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="tutors">tutors</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bid">bid</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="boost">boost</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="grades">grades</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="let">let</span> <span word="nothing">nothing</span> <span word="stand">stand</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="success">success</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="though">though</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="robbing">robbing</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="build">build</span> <span word="resilience">resilience</span>. <span word="Children">Children</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="becoming">becoming</span> '<span word="terrified">terrified</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="failure">failure</span>' <span word="and">and</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="turned">turned</span> <span word="into">into</span> '<span word="achievement">achievement</span> <span word="machines">machines</span>' <span word="by">by</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="parents">parents</span>.</p>
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