恋爱中，这些话还是不要说比较好
<p>1. "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dishes">dishes</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="leave">leave</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="sitting">sitting</span> <span word="there">there</span>."</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="dishes">dishes</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="placeholder">placeholder</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="pretty">pretty</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="anything">anything</span> <span word="here">here</span>. <span word="Whatever">Whatever</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="issue">issue</span>, <span word="using">using</span> <span word="accusatory">accusatory</span> <span word="blanket">blanket</span> <span word="terms">terms</span> <span word="like">like</span> "<span word="never">never</span>" <span word="and">and</span> "<span word="always">always</span>" <span word="tends">tends</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="end">end</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="same">same</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="time">time</span>: <span word="with">with</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="boo">boo</span> <span word="engaged">engaged</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="overblown">overblown</span> <span word="argument">argument</span>. <span word="Plus">Plus</span>, <span word="there">there</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="chance">chance</span> <span word="yourgeneralization">yourgeneralization</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Samantha">Samantha</span> <span word="Rodman">Rodman</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="psychologist">psychologist</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Takoma">Takoma</span> <span word="Park">Park</span>, <span word="Maryland">Maryland</span>.</p><p>2. "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="sound">sound</span> <span word="exactly">exactly</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="mother">mother</span>."</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="arguing">arguing</span>, <span word="stick">stick</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="issue">issue</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="hand">hand</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="focus">focus</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="Introducing">Introducing</span> <span word="nasty">nasty</span> <span word="comparisons">comparisons</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="in">in</span>-<span word="laws">laws</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="unfair">unfair</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="ultimately">ultimately</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="diversion">diversion</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="problems">problems</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Sharon">Sharon</span> <span word="Gilchrest">Gilchrest</span> <span word="O">O</span>'<span word="Neill">Neill</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="therapist">therapist</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="author">author</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="A">A</span> <span word="Short">Short</span> <span word="Guide">Guide</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="Happy">Happy</span> <span word="Marriage">Marriage</span>.</p><p>3. "<span word="You">You</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="else">else</span>!"</p><p><span word="Never">Never</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="words">words</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="mouth">mouth</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="case">case</span>, <span word="thoughts">thoughts</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="head">head</span>. <span word="There">There</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="knowing">knowing</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="feeling">feeling</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="thinking">thinking</span>, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="keep">keep</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="assumptions">assumptions</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="yourself">yourself</span>, <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Becky">Becky</span> <span word="Whetstone">Whetstone</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="family">family</span> <span word="therapist">therapist</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="Little">Little</span> <span word="Rock">Rock</span>, <span word="Arkansas">Arkansas</span>.</p><p>4. "<span word="Do">Do</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="weight">weight</span>?"</p><p>"<span word="What">What</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="really">really</span> <span word="mean">mean</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="is">is</span>, '<span word="I">I</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="weight">weight</span>. <span word="I">I</span>'<span word="m">m</span> <span word="unhappy">unhappy</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span>'<span word="re">re</span> <span word="OK">OK</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="current">current</span> <span word="state">state</span>.'" <span word="she">she</span> <span word="said">said</span>. "<span word="These">These</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="questions">questions</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="side">side</span>-<span word="stepping">stepping</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="responsibility">responsibility</span>, <span word="plus">plus</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="force">force</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="into">into</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="enabling">enabling</span> <span word="role">role</span>," <span word="said">said</span> <span word="Robyn">Robyn</span> <span word="Wahlgast">Wahlgast</span>, <span word="a">a</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="relationship">relationship</span> <span word="coach">coach</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="women">women</span>.</p>
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