恋爱状态与婚姻状态有关吗?
<p><span word="Scientists">Scientists</span> <span word="confirm">confirm</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="obvious">obvious</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="some">some</span>: <span word="what">what</span> <span word="satisfies">satisfies</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="dating">dating</span>, <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="predict">predict</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="happy">happy</span> <span word="we">we</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>.</p><p><span word="Many">Many</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="learn">learn</span>, <span word="most">most</span> <span word="likely">likely</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="way">way</span>, <span word="that">that</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="brings">brings</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="quite">quite</span> <span word="different">different</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="satisfies">satisfies</span> <span word="us">us</span> “<span word="until">until</span> <span word="death">death</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="part">part</span>”。 <span word="The">The</span> <span word="critical">critical</span> <span word="difference">difference</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="how">how</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="perception">perception</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="commitment">commitment</span> <span word="changes">changes</span> <span word="once">once</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="married">married</span>.</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="survey">survey</span> <span word="of">of</span> 92 <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="couples">couples</span> <span word="and">and</span> 77 <span word="married">married</span> <span word="couples">couples</span>, <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="published">published</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="summer">summer</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="journal">journal</span>, <span word="Psychological">Psychological</span> <span word="Science">Science</span>.</p><p><span word="For">For</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="types">types</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="couples">couples</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="primary">primary</span> <span word="predictor">predictor</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="happiness">happiness</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="perception">perception</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="whether">whether</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="motivates">motivates</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="live">live</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="aspirations">aspirations</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="supports">supports</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="pursuit">pursuit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="dreams">dreams</span>.</p><p><span word="But">But</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="additional">additional</span> <span word="type">type</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="appear">appear</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="big">big</span> <span word="deal">deal</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="dating">dating</span>. <span word="In">In</span> <span word="marriage">marriage</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="surprisingly">surprisingly</span>, <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="actively">actively</span> <span word="helping">helping</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="fulfill">fulfill</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="current">current</span> <span word="responsibilities">responsibilities</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="obligations">obligations</span>.</p><p><span word="The">The</span> <span word="significant">significant</span> <span word="finding">finding</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="researchers">researchers</span> <span word="say">say</span>, <span word="is">is</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="dating">dating</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="gives">gives</span> <span word="us">us</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="follow">follow</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="dreams">dreams</span>, <span word="they">they</span>'<span word="ll">ll</span> <span word="probably">probably</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="parts">parts</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="namely">namely</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="immediate">immediate</span> <span word="responsibilities">responsibilities</span>. <span word="But">But</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="ability">ability</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="inspire">inspire</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="partner">partner</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="accurate">accurate</span> <span word="predictor">predictor</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="support">support</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="mundane">mundane</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="immediate">immediate</span> <span word="obligations">obligations</span>. <span word="And">And</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="lead">lead</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="rude">rude</span> <span word="awakening">awakening</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="church">church</span> <span word="bells">bells</span> <span word="ring">ring</span>.</p>
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