你的“打招呼列表”长吗?
<p> 碰到脸熟的同事,你会主动打招呼吗?如果会,那么对方就在你的<span word="hello">hello</span> <span word="list">list</span>--“打招呼列表”上。当然,这个列表也是不断变化的。如果这个人从来不主动和你打招呼,那么下次你的“打招呼列表”中也将不再有他。</p><p> </p><p> <span word="Hello">Hello</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="refers">refers</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="want">want</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="say">say</span> "<span word="hello">hello</span>" <span word="to">to</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="basis">basis</span>, <span word="especially">especially</span> <span word="relevant">relevant</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="students">students</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="university">university</span> <span word="buildings">buildings</span>, <span word="or">or</span> <span word="coworkers">coworkers</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="workplace">workplace</span>. <span word="Some">Some</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="decide">decide</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="hello">hello</span> <span word="lists">lists</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="yours">yours</span>. <span word="Typically">Typically</span>, <span word="reciprocity">reciprocity</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="expected">expected</span>.</p><p> “打招呼列表”指的是你平日里碰见时必须或想打招呼的人,那些经常穿梭于教学大楼的学生,或单位里的职员,都会有这样一张“打招呼列表”。某些人也许会把你放在他们的“打招呼列表”里,尽管他们并不在你的列表上(意思是他们会主动和你打招呼,而你不会)。不过,通常他们也期待你以后会主动和他们打招呼。</p><p> <span word="Example">Example</span>:</p><p> <span word="Dropping">Dropping</span> <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="hello">hello</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="nod">nod</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="pass">pass</span> <span word="him">him</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="her">her</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="considered">considered</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="snub">snub</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="person">person</span>.</p><p> 把某人从“打招呼列表”里移除,碰到时只是点点头,可能会被对方视作怠慢。</p>
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