什么是“甜柠檬心理”？
<p> 伊索寓言中有个故事讲道，有只狐狸原想找些可口的食物，但遍寻不着，只找到一只酸柠檬，这实在是一件不得已而为之的事，但它却说：“这柠檬是甜的，正是我想吃的。”这种只能得到柠檬就说柠檬是甜的自我安慰现象，就叫“甜柠檬心理”，英文表达是<span word="sweet">sweet</span> <span word="lemon">lemon</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span>。</p><p> </p><p> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="term">term</span> <span word="sweet">sweet</span> <span word="lemon">lemon</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>, "<span word="When">When</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="hands">hands</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="lemons">lemons</span>, <span word="make">make</span> <span word="lemonade">lemonade</span>." <span word="It">It</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="making">making</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="best">best</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="bad">bad</span> <span word="situation">situation</span>, <span word="even">even</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="involves">involves</span> <span word="mixing">mixing</span> <span word="lemons">lemons</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="cuploads">cuploads</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sugar">sugar</span> <span word="until">until</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="taste">taste</span> <span word="sweet">sweet</span>. <span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="equal">equal</span> <span word="opposite">opposite</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="sour">sour</span> <span word="grapes">grapes</span>.</p><p> 甜柠檬一词来源于一句俗语：“生活给你柠檬，就榨柠檬汁吧。”意思是在最坏的情况下尽力做到最好，就算要往柠檬汁里倒进许多糖直到它味道变甜。甜柠檬的反义词就是酸葡萄（吃不到葡萄就说葡萄酸）。</p><p> <span word="In">In</span> <span word="daily">daily</span> <span word="life">life</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="fail">fail</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="achieve">achieve</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="goal">goal</span>, <span word="they">they</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sugarcoat">sugarcoat</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="result">result</span>, <span word="in">in</span> <span word="order">order</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="peaceful">peaceful</span>. <span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="called">called</span> “<span word="sweet">sweet</span> <span word="lemon">lemon</span> <span word="psychology">psychology</span>”.</p><p> 在日常生活中，当人们追求目标失败时，他们可能会试图美化结果，以让自己内心感到安宁。这就叫“甜柠檬心理”。</p>
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