朋友无数实为“人际泡沫”
<p> <span word="MSN">MSN</span>上有上百个联系人，却没有一个人可以在你心情低落时听你倾诉；社交聚会上满眼都是熟人，可一转身就已经忘了对方是谁。这种情况就是很多人正在经历的“人际泡沫”。</p><p> </p><p> <span word="Social">Social</span> <span word="bubble">bubble</span> (<span word="or">or</span> <span word="interpersonal">interpersonal</span> <span word="bubble">bubble</span>) <span word="describes">describes</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="situation">situation</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wide">wide</span> <span word="range">range</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="connections">connections</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="it">it</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span>, <span word="few">few</span> <span word="remain">remain</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="circle">circle</span>. <span word="Following">Following</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="wave">wave</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="financial">financial</span> <span word="bubble">bubble</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="real">real</span> <span word="estate">estate</span> <span word="bubble">bubble</span>, <span word="social">social</span> <span word="bubble">bubble</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="showing">showing</span> <span word="up">up</span> <span word="among">among</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="workers">workers</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="recent">recent</span> <span word="years">years</span>.</p><p> 人际泡沫，指一些人看起来结识的人不少，但事实上，真正能称之为朋友的却寥寥无几。在“金融泡沫”、“房产泡沫”之后，“人际泡沫”开始冲击职场人士。</p><p> <span word="Your">Your</span> <span word="office">office</span> <span word="drawer">drawer</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="filled">filled</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="cards">cards</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="owners">owners</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="total">total</span> <span word="strangers">strangers</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>. <span word="There">There</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="many">many</span> <span word="contacts">contacts</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="instant">instant</span> <span word="messenger">messenger</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="start">start</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="whose">whose</span> <span word="name">name</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="slipped">slipped</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="memory">memory</span>. <span word="You">You</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="many">many</span> “<span word="friends">friends</span>” <span word="in">in</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="cell">cell</span> <span word="phone">phone</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="list">list</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="there">there</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="talk">talk</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="upset">upset</span>.</p><p> 放了一抽屉的名片，却时常想不起来名片后面那张陌生的脸；即时通讯工具里的联系人，很多从不主动去聊天，甚至搞不清对方的名字；手机电话簿里的名字已经饱和，在失落时却找不到一个可以诉说的人……</p>
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