经历过“送礼焦虑症”吗?
<p> 眼看着七夕就要到了,很多人都开始摩拳擦掌给心仪的人准备礼物。有时候,因为太在意对方的感受,所以在选择礼物时会犹豫不定,选什么都怕对方不喜欢。这个时候,送礼焦虑症就出现了。</p><p> </p><p> <span word="Gift">Gift</span>-<span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="form">form</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span>. <span word="The">The</span> <span word="amount">amount</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="feels">feels</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="gift">gift</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="dependent">dependent</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="approval">approval</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fear">fear</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="being">being</span> <span word="seen">seen</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="judged">judged</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="negative">negative</span> <span word="way">way</span>.</p><p> 送礼焦虑症(<span word="gift">gift</span>-<span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span>)是一种社交焦虑症。一个人在送礼时的焦虑程度与其想要得到的认可需求和对礼物会否得到负面评价的担心程度有关。</p><p> <span word="People">People</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="gift">gift</span>-<span word="giving">giving</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="think">think</span>:</p><p> 患有送礼焦虑症的人通常会这么想:</p><p> "<span word="What">What</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="gift">gift</span>?"</p><p> 如果我丈夫不喜欢这个礼物怎么办?</p><p> "<span word="What">What</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="cheap">cheap</span>?"</p><p> 如果我的孩子觉得我挑的礼物太廉价怎么办?</p><p> "<span word="What">What</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="bought">bought</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="brother">brother</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="sister">sister</span>?"</p><p> 要是我的孩子觉得我给其他兄弟姐妹买的礼物比给他的多怎么办?</p><p> "<span word="What">What</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="boss">boss</span> <span word="thinks">thinks</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="gift">gift</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="inexpensive">inexpensive</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="like">like</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="color">color</span>?"</p><p> 要是我老板觉得我的礼物不够贵重或者他不喜欢这个颜色怎么办?</p>
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