双语美文：别人的生活并不一定那么好
<p><span word="We">We</span>'<span word="ve">ve</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="heard">heard</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="quote">quote</span>, '<span word="Be">Be</span> <span word="Kind">Kind</span>, <span word="for">for</span> <span word="everyone">everyone</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="meet">meet</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="fighting">fighting</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="hard">hard</span> <span word="battle">battle</span>.'</p><p>我们都听过这句话：“要善良，因为你遇到的每个人都在经历某种痛苦。”</p><p><span word="My">My</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="son">son</span> <span word="died">died</span> <span word="within">within</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="years">years</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span>. <span word="From">From</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="believe">believe</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="aren">aren</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="careful">careful</span>, <span word="grief">grief</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="involved">involved</span> <span word="process">process</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="focused">focused</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="our">our</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="suffering">suffering</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="miss">miss</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="opportunity">opportunity</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="connect">connect</span> <span word="with">with</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="possibly">possibly</span> <span word="bring">bring</span> <span word="comfort">comfort</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="someone">someone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="going">going</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="similar">similar</span> <span word="experience">experience</span>.</p><p>我的丈夫和儿子两年内相继去世，从我个人经验来看，我相信我们一不小心就会被伤痛左右，以自己为中心，我们会变得过于关注自己的痛苦，以至于错失和正经历相似痛苦的人接触，甚至有可能给予他们安慰的机会。</p><p><span word="Six">Six</span> <span word="months">months</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="husband">husband</span> <span word="died">died</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="sinking">sinking</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="quicksand">quicksand</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="grief">grief</span>. <span word="I">I</span> <span word="could">could</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="pull">pull</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="misery">misery</span>.</p><p>我丈夫去世后六个月，我陷入悲痛不能自拔，无法走出不幸的阴影。</p><p><span word="In">In</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>, <span word="I">I</span> <span word="actually">actually</span> <span word="believed">believed</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="life">life</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="difficult">difficult</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="anyone">anyone</span> <span word="else">else</span> <span word="around">around</span> <span word="me">me</span>. <span word="Life">Life</span> <span word="handed">handed</span> <span word="me">me</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="perfectly">perfectly</span> <span word="wrapped">wrapped</span> <span word="lesson">lesson</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="opened">opened</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="eyes">eyes</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="fact">fact</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="through">through</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="suffering">suffering</span> <span word="I">I</span> <span word="had">had</span> <span word="allowed">allowed</span> <span word="myself">myself</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="blinded">blinded</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="my">my</span> <span word="self">self</span>-<span word="pity">pity</span>.</p><p>那时，我真的认为自己的生活要比身边任何人都不容易。生活给我上了完美的一课，通过这次不幸我认清了一个事实：顾影自怜使我看不到别人，只看到自己。</p>
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