“直升机父母”的升级版：“割草机父母”
<p> 原来听说过“直升机父母”，如今，又来了“割草机父母”。前者时刻观察孩子的一举一动，孩子一旦遇到什么挫折和困难，他们立马出手相助。后者则是前者的升级版，他们不等着困难出现，而是一直走在孩子前面，随时替他们清除障碍。</p><p> </p><p> <span word="The">The</span> <span word="lawnmower">lawnmower</span> <span word="parent">parent</span> <span word="comes">comes</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="well">well</span>-<span word="intentioned">intentioned</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="increasingly">increasingly</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="trim">trim</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="lives">lives</span>.</p><p> 越来越多心怀好意的父母试图扫清孩子生活中的一切障碍，于是，“割草机父母”就出现了。</p><p> <span word="Instead">Instead</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="hovering">hovering</span> <span word="over">over</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="closely">closely</span> <span word="monitoring">monitoring</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="helicopter">helicopter</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="to">to</span>, <span word="lawnmower">lawnmower</span> <span word="parents">parents</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="clear">clear</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="They">They</span> <span word="try">try</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="remove">remove</span> <span word="obstacles">obstacles</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="might">might</span> <span word="need">need</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="negotiate">negotiate</span>.</p><p> “割草机父母”不像“直升机父母”那样整天盘旋在孩子头顶、密切关注他们的一举一动，而是随时赶在孩子前面，帮助他们扫清道路上的障碍。他们想要扫清孩子可能会面临的所有障碍。</p><p> <span word="Constant">Constant</span> <span word="monitoring">monitoring</span>, <span word="overscheduling">overscheduling</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="protecting">protecting</span> <span word="children">children</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="problems">problems</span> <span word="can">can</span> <span word="come">come</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="cost">cost</span>. <span word="Overprotection">Overprotection</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="contributing">contributing</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="rising">rising</span> <span word="prevalence">prevalence</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="anxiety">anxiety</span> <span word="disorders">disorders</span> <span word="among">among</span> <span word="children">children</span>.</p><p> 持续监控、为孩子制定过多计划、不让孩子自己面对问题，这些做法最后都可能导致不良后果。过度保护可能是导致越来越多儿童有焦虑症的原因之一。</p>
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