中外文化大不同，盘点十个极容易发生的误会（下）
<p><span word="top">top</span> 5 鼓掌</p><p>当众发言的时候，如果别人给自己鼓掌，为了表达谢意，中国人通常都会暂停发言，而后随着听众一起鼓掌。 <span word="in">in</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="expresses">expresses</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="thanks">thanks</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="audience">audience</span>. 可是老外就不理解为何要自己给自己鼓掌。自己给自己鼓掌，多不谦虚啊。</p><p><span word="of">of</span> <span word="course">course</span>, <span word="when">when</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="chinese">chinese</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span> <span word="claps">claps</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="hands">hands</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="audience">audience</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="applauding">applauding</span>, <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="applauding">applauding</span> <span word="himself">himself</span>, <span word="but">but</span> <span word="expressing">expressing</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="thanks">thanks</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="audience">audience</span>. <span word="as">as</span> <span word="noted">noted</span> <span word="earlier">earlier</span>, <span word="westerners">westerners</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="puzzled">puzzled</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="watching">watching</span> <span word="such">such</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="scene">scene</span>, <span word="since">since</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="think">think</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span> <span word="or">or</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="performer">performer</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="applauding">applauding</span> <span word="himself">himself</span>.</p><p>所以，以后老外在场，发言的人不妨用鞠躬或者挥手代替鼓掌。当然，微笑站立也是一种选择。</p><p><span word="top">top</span> 4 眼神</p><p>许多中国人在和别人说话，或者当众发言的时候，羞于和听众进行眼神的交流。<span word="some">some</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="them">them</span>, <span word="perhaps">perhaps</span> <span word="because">because</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="nervousness">nervousness</span>, <span word="like">like</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="bury">bury</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="nose">nose</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="manuscript">manuscript</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="read">read</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="speech">speech</span> <span word="all">all</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="time">time</span>. 这种做法其实是不礼貌的。</p><p>与人交流的时候，老外<span word="expects">expects</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>, <span word="though">though</span> <span word="this">this</span> <span word="does">does</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="constant">constant</span>.</p><p>当众发言的时候，老外<span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="audience">audience</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span>. 他们是不会把脑袋埋在稿子里面说话的。</p><p><span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="public">public</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="kind">kind</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="two">two</span>-<span word="way">way</span> <span word="communication">communication</span>, <span word="which">which</span> <span word="needs">needs</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="sides">sides</span>. <span word="the">the</span> <span word="speaker">speaker</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="certainly">certainly</span> <span word="feel">feel</span> <span word="embarrassed">embarrassed</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="sees">sees</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="audience">audience</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="but">but</span> <span word="if">if</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="look">look</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="his">his</span> <span word="audience">audience</span> <span word="now">now</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="then">then</span>, <span word="his">his</span> <span word="audience">audience</span> <span word="also">also</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="not">not</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="listen">listen</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="what">what</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="saying">saying</span>. 如果你发言的时候没有勇气看听众，那么你也无权要求你的听众会和你形成良好的互动。</p>
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