中外文化谈:如何做个有礼貌的旅行者(下)
<p>8. <span word="Japan">Japan</span></p><p>日本</p><p><span word="When">When</span> <span word="dealing">dealing</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="Japanese">Japanese</span> <span word="clients">clients</span>, <span word="be">be</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="dress">dress</span> <span word="fairly">fairly</span> <span word="conservatively">conservatively</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="make">make</span> <span word="sure">sure</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="bow">bow</span> <span word="lower">lower</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="do">do</span> <span word="upon">upon</span> <span word="meeting">meeting</span> <span word="them">them</span>. <span word="Accept">Accept</span> <span word="gifts">gifts</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="hands">hands</span> (<span word="and">and</span> <span word="open">open</span> <span word="them">them</span> <span word="later">later</span>, <span word="not">not</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="front">front</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="giver">giver</span>), <span word="and">and</span> <span word="never">never</span> <span word="blow">blow</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="nose">nose</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="dining">dining</span> <span word="table">table</span>. <span word="Avoid">Avoid</span> <span word="asking">asking</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="answering">answering</span> <span word="direct">direct</span> <span word="questions">questions</span>: <span word="it">it</span>’<span word="s">s</span> <span word="better">better</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="imply">imply</span> <span word="rather">rather</span> <span word="than">than</span> <span word="ask">ask</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="answer">answer</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="vagueness">vagueness</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="conversations">conversations</span>.</p><p>与日本客户打交道时,穿着一定要保守,并且在见面鞠躬时,你的身子要低于对方的身子。用双手接礼物(不要当面就打开礼物,回头再拆开礼 物),不要在餐桌上擤鼻涕。不要提问和回答很直接的问题:暗示性地问问题的方式比直接发问的方式好,对话时最好能语焉不详地回答。</p><p>9. <span word="Argentina">Argentina</span></p><p>阿根廷</p><p><span word="This">This</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="another">another</span> <span word="country">country</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="which">which</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="will">will</span> <span word="lean">lean</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="when">when</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="speak">speak</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="you">you</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="touch">touch</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="often">often</span> <span word="during">during</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="conversation">conversation</span>. <span word="Pulling">Pulling</span> <span word="away">away</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="considered">considered</span> <span word="rude">rude</span> <span word="and">and</span> “<span word="cold">cold</span>”, <span word="so">so</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="prepared">prepared</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="sacrifice">sacrifice</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="own">own</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="space">space</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="sake">sake</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="social">social</span> <span word="courtesy">courtesy</span>. <span word="Maintain">Maintain</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="eye">eye</span> <span word="contact">contact</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="don">don</span>’<span word="t">t</span> <span word="put">put</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="hands">hands</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="your">your</span> <span word="hips">hips</span>.</p><p>阿根廷这个国家的人和你说话时,也会和你靠得很近,并且在谈话时经常有身体接触的动作。说话时离得远被认为是无礼“冷漠”,所以,为了在社交时做到有礼貌要准备好牺牲自己的个人空间。要保持伴有眼神接触的动作,不要把手放在臀部。</p>
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