美国式友谊：只是表示友善的方法
<p><span word="steve">steve</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="first">first</span> <span word="met">met</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="chemistry">chemistry</span> <span word="class">class</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="american">american</span> <span word="university">university</span>. <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="inter">inter</span>-<span word="national">national</span> <span word="student">student</span> <span word="from">from</span> <span word="jordan">jordan</span>. <span word="he">he</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="excited">excited</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="get">get</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="know">know</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="american">american</span>. <span word="he">he</span> <span word="wanted">wanted</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="learn">learn</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="about">about</span> <span word="american">american</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>. <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="hoped">hoped</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="steve">steve</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="become">become</span> <span word="good">good</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>.</p><p><span word="at">at</span> <span word="first">first</span>, <span word="steve">steve</span> <span word="seemed">seemed</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="friendly">friendly</span>. <span word="he">he</span> <span word="always">always</span> <span word="greeted">greeted</span> <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="warmly">warmly</span> <span word="before">before</span> <span word="class">class</span>. <span word="sometimes">sometimes</span> <span word="he">he</span> <span word="offered">offered</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="study">study</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="yaser">yaser</span>. <span word="he">he</span> <span word="even">even</span> <span word="invited">invited</span> <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="eat">eat</span> <span word="lunch">lunch</span> <span word="with">with</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="but">but</span> <span word="after">after</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="semester">semester</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="over">over</span>, <span word="steve">steve</span> <span word="seemed">seemed</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="distant">distant</span>. <span word="the">the</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="former">former</span> <span word="classmates">classmates</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="see">see</span> <span word="each">each</span> <span word="other">other</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="much">much</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="school">school</span>. <span word="one">one</span> <span word="day">day</span> <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="decided">decided</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="steve">steve</span>. <span word="steve">steve</span> <span word="didn">didn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="seem">seem</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="interested">interested</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="talking">talking</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="him">him</span>. <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="was">was</span> <span word="hurt">hurt</span> <span word="by">by</span> <span word="steve">steve</span>'<span word="s">s</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="attitude">attitude</span>. "<span word="steve">steve</span> <span word="said">said</span> <span word="we">we</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>," <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="complained">complained</span>. "<span word="and">and</span> <span word="i">i</span> <span word="thought">thought</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="were">were</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="forever">forever</span>."</p><p><span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="little">little</span> <span word="confused">confused</span>. <span word="he">he</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="outsider">outsider</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="american">american</span> <span word="culture">culture</span>. <span word="he">he</span> <span word="doesn">doesn</span>'<span word="t">t</span> <span word="understand">understand</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="way">way</span> <span word="americans">americans</span> <span word="view">view</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span>. <span word="americans">americans</span> <span word="use">use</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span> <span word="friend">friend</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="very">very</span> <span word="general">general</span> <span word="way">way</span>. <span word="they">they</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="call">call</span> <span word="both">both</span> <span word="casual">casual</span> <span word="acquaintances">acquaintances</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="close">close</span> <span word="companions">companions</span> "<span word="friends">friends</span>". <span word="americans">americans</span> <span word="have">have</span> <span word="school">school</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="work">work</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>, <span word="sports">sports</span> <span word="friends">friends</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="neighborhood">neighborhood</span> <span word="friends">friends</span>. <span word="these">these</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="based">based</span> <span word="on">on</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="interests">interests</span>. <span word="when">when</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="shared">shared</span> <span word="activity">activity</span> <span word="ends">ends</span>, <span word="the">the</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="fade">fade</span>. <span word="now">now</span> <span word="steve">steve</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="yaser">yaser</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="no">no</span> <span word="longer">longer</span> <span word="classmates">classmates</span>. <span word="their">their</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="has">has</span> <span word="changed">changed</span>.</p><p><span word="in">in</span> <span word="some">some</span> <span word="cultures">cultures</span> <span word="friendship">friendship</span> <span word="means">means</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="strong">strong</span> <span word="life">life</span>-<span word="long">long</span> <span word="bond">bond</span> <span word="between">between</span> <span word="two">two</span> <span word="people">people</span>. <span word="in">in</span> <span word="these">these</span> <span word="cultures">cultures</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="slowly">slowly</span>, <span word="since">since</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="built">built</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="last">last</span>. <span word="american">american</span> <span word="society">society</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="rapid">rapid</span> <span word="change">change</span>. <span word="studies">studies</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="five">five</span> <span word="american">american</span> <span word="families">families</span> <span word="moves">moves</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="year">year</span>. <span word="american">american</span> <span word="friendships">friendships</span> <span word="develop">develop</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span>, <span word="and">and</span> <span word="they">they</span> <span word="may">may</span> <span word="change">change</span> <span word="just">just</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="quickly">quickly</span>.</p>
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