机智能助你成功，但若不机智将会发生什么
<p>做任何事情都有适当、不适当的时机，机智就是要在适当时机做适当的事和说适当的话。机智和礼节有很密切的关系，一个人不可能只具备其中一种而缺少另一种特质，机智是一项无价的处世技巧，表现机智和缺乏机智，同样会让人看得见。</p><p><span word="There">There</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="wrong">wrong</span> <span word="moment">moment</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="everything">everything</span>.<span word="Tact">Tact</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="habit">habit</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="doing">doing</span> <span word="and">and</span> <span word="saying">saying</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="thing">thing</span> <span word="at">at</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="right">right</span> <span word="moment">moment</span>.<span word="Tact">Tact</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="closely">closely</span> <span word="related">related</span> <span word="to">to</span> <span word="courtesy">courtesy</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="you">you</span> <span word="cannot">cannot</span> <span word="practice">practice</span> <span word="one">one</span> <span word="without">without</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="other">other</span>.<span word="It">It</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="an">an</span> <span word="invaluable">invaluable</span> <span word="skill">skill</span>,<span word="just">just</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="noticeable">noticeable</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="absence">absence</span> <span word="as">as</span> <span word="for">for</span> <span word="its">its</span> <span word="presence">presence</span>.</p><p>以下是缺乏机智时最常发生的情况：</p><p><span word="Here">Here</span> <span word="is">is</span> <span word="a">a</span> <span word="list">list</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="most">most</span> <span word="common">common</span> <span word="ways">ways</span> <span word="people">people</span> <span word="show">show</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="lack">lack</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="tact">tact</span>:</p><p>1.不注意自己说话的语气，经常以不悦而且对立的语气说话。</p><p>1.<span word="Carelessness">Carelessness</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="their">their</span> <span word="tone">tone</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="voice">voice</span>,<span word="often">often</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span> <span word="in">in</span> <span word="gruff">gruff</span>,<span word="antagonistic">antagonistic</span> <span word="tones">tones</span>.</p><p>2.应该保持沉默的时候偏偏爱说话。</p><p>2.<span word="Speaking">Speaking</span> <span word="out">out</span> <span word="of">of</span> <span word="turn">turn</span>,<span word="when">when</span> <span word="silence">silence</span> <span word="would">would</span> <span word="be">be</span> <span word="more">more</span> <span word="appropriate">appropriate</span>.</p><p>3.打断别人的话。</p><p>3.<span word="Interrupting">Interrupting</span> <span word="others">others</span> <span word="who">who</span> <span word="are">are</span> <span word="speaking">speaking</span>.</p><p>4.滥用人称代词。以至在每个句子中都用“我”这个字。</p><p>4.<span word="Overworking">Overworking</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="personal">personal</span> <span word="pronoun">pronoun</span> <span word="so">so</span> <span word="that">that</span> <span word="every">every</span> <span word="sentence">sentence</span> <span word="features">features</span> <span word="the">the</span> <span word="word">word</span>"<span word="I">I</span>".</p><p>5.以傲慢的态度提出问题，给人一种只有他最重要的印象。</p>
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